Hi ladies, I've posted here once a long time ago and got my ass handed to me. I made changes and a lot has happened. I'll give BG here in a second but I need some clear eyes to see if this article my MIL sent me is other the line or not and if I should respond or BH like I do most of her attemps to contact.
BG with triggers:
DH and I have been married for 3 years, we have a 2yr DS, two months ago **trigger, we lost our daughter at 36 weeks, end trigger** since it has happened I have been battling the pressure I feel to talk to my MIL about it as she also suffered a late term loss. She is religious and I am not, also I don't want to open up emotionally on that level to anyone besides a therapist and my DH. Today my MIL sent me this article https://flysoftly.wordpress.com/2013/07/30/the-true-story-of-a-seven-year-marriage/
I just need someone who is outside of the situation to tell me how they would perceive this. She is my BEC and to me it feels like she thinks my marriage is in trouble and is sending me stuff to "help". She also started the message with 'hello my sweet daughter...' Which just drives me insane, yes she does always sign off as mom and asks me to call her mom but I call her by her first name.
If you need BG on top of this please just ask as I'm trying to type this out while DS naps.
BG with triggers:
DH and I have been married for 3 years, we have a 2yr DS, two months ago **trigger, we lost our daughter at 36 weeks, end trigger** since it has happened I have been battling the pressure I feel to talk to my MIL about it as she also suffered a late term loss. She is religious and I am not, also I don't want to open up emotionally on that level to anyone besides a therapist and my DH. Today my MIL sent me this article https://flysoftly.wordpress.com/2013/07/30/the-true-story-of-a-seven-year-marriage/
I just need someone who is outside of the situation to tell me how they would perceive this. She is my BEC and to me it feels like she thinks my marriage is in trouble and is sending me stuff to "help". She also started the message with 'hello my sweet daughter...' Which just drives me insane, yes she does always sign off as mom and asks me to call her mom but I call her by her first name.
If you need BG on top of this please just ask as I'm trying to type this out while DS naps.
