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Really strange comments from FIL
My SIL and I had our babies 5 months apart, both boys. The first time FIL met our baby he commented that he has BIL’s eye color. I said I have blue eyes and DH has hazel blue-green as well, so I’m sure...
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Am i the villain?
I will give a few examples of my relationship with my inlaws. I have been with Dh since 2012. We got engaged in 2015 and was told by his eldest sister we are moving too fast and he shouldn't marry me...
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Enforcing Boundaries Resources
I tried an unsuccessful search, but am wondering if any of you have resources on how to reinforce boundaries and what an escalation process should look like? I've only found generic "how to make...
View ArticleMIL wants my wedding ring returned to her
I am really struggling right now and don’t know how to feel or think. My mother-in-law asked my husband to give my wedding ring back to her. I’m so hurt. And my husband didn’t understand why that would...
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Photos of CO people *Triggers* pg11, 15, 21, 24, 27, 30, 32!!!41, 54, 60, 63,...
NOTICE: It’s been 3 years since I started this thread. I don’t need advice on the original post. Don’t HIPPO 3 years worth of pages and updates just to give me your thoughts on my picture problem. Read...
View ArticleSIL Violating Boundaries
Hi all! We CO SIL and BIL almost 18 mos ago after terribly narcissistic and abusive behavior. We are 1 month out from the birth of our 1st LO. We did not tell SIL but she congratulated DH when she...
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How to enforce cut off and any other advice
Long time lurker for occasional advice. Hoped I wouldn’t have to post here and the situation would resolve itself. It didn’t, so here I am. BG: FIL is probably a narcissist and is totally a master...
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Dealing with brother and SIL
Hey there! I don’t post so often, but I have been needing help lately. Background: I left my stbx ten months ago, my boy was 3 and a half years and my baby girl was 6 months old. I stayed at my mom’s...
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No contact? Inlaws
*edited* Okay so I want to know has anyone did the no contact, does it make a peaceful marriage or did it make things worse, did anyone divorce over inlaws or did the no contact make things much...
View ArticleRe-establish Contact After 5 Years and a Death
There's a lot of background here, spanning 15+ years. I'll try to work backwards and not be too long. Where things stand now, my father passed away a month ago. I hadn't spoken to him in 3 years, and...
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