ot/spin off - who is behind the avi?
Inspired by another thread where we determined that Imp is Countess Luann, and Twinmommy is Bethany.... And with permission from the Queen! Who do you envision your favorite posters as? I see Gladys...
View ArticleOverreacting? DH and I disagree on MIL babysitting/how to celebrate holidays
I apologize in advance if this is not coherent and if this is dumb, please tell me I'm overreacting. If any BG would clarify something I am happy to share. I'm sorry for the novel. My DH (DuH?) and I...
View ArticleMoney guilting MOO
Hey so, my mom often uses money as a manipulation tactic. She'll drop comments about how much she spent and how it put her out so much, and boo hoo she lent this person money and they still haven't...
View ArticleDH engagaging FM
So, the I won't go too deep into background, as I'm moble and it's REALLY LONG. but suffice it to say that dh has a UOO who was CO years ago by his entire FOO when he was 12 or so. DH has since...
View ArticleTB test
First post, lots of lurking. I'm due 5/10 and my MOO is coming to help 5/16. I'm ok with her coming, as she was very helpful when DS was born a couple of years ago. The issue: I just found out my...
View ArticleGlommerville update
I am on mobile so I can't link my thread from almost a year ago but I am sure someone can help me out with that. Long story short, we moved to the same town as the in-laws and they took over our lives....
View ArticleMIL has decided we're pregnant with her baby
My mil has decided that dh and I are not having a baby for us, but for her. Referring to our child as “my baby”. Not taking the hint that it’s not cute and that it’s not her child, but ours. We are...
View ArticleBlindsided but probably shouldn't be UD 10
I've gone anon for this because my previous sn was a bit too recognizable. Some background: I come from a strange narcissistic entanglement of golden children and scape goats - we were raised by...
View ArticleGetting out of family traditions?
Ladies, hoping for your advice here. Ever since I was a kid, we've always done holidays as a big family event...usually at my grandparents' house. No matter what, my mom expects us to be there every...
View ArticleMoo texting & instigating
My narc moo has been c/o since Jan due to eating my son's first bday cake (but that's in another post- some of you may remember) & plus other miscellaneous bsc. Today she texts me & starts...
View ArticleI desperately need advice!!!
I am just at a loss for what to do anymore. This whole situation is just backwards. Let me preface by just saying my in-laws are completely psychotic, DH has 9 older sisters and his mother and of...
View ArticleMIL trying to keep shower gifts
Hi, a lady on my birth board told me about you guys and said I might need your advice. I'll explain the sitch and my plan (cutting and pasting from my birth club) I don't know if this is on topic but I...
View ArticleSelf centered MIL in room during birth?
My DH and I have been trying to conceive for 6 years, 4 years of infertility treatments, 6 failed IUIs and finally got our BFP on our first round of IVF. During this whole time his family has always...
View ArticleI'm going to cut you off! Pg 6
I have another thread here about a multi family vacation. This thread is about my mil who was with us. I don't spend a to of time with her but there were some things that annoyed me while she was here....
View ArticleDo we respond or BH or what? Updates: 94, 98, 101
Updates: 7, 11, 13, 21, 27, 36, 42, 46, 48, 53, 57, 68, 70, 74, 80, 87, 92, 94, 98, 101 In December, my DH sent his parents a short letter stating, We are in the process of creating and enforcing...
View ArticleMoney and FOO. Please advise...
Hi everyone, I have a situation here regarding my FOO that I would like advice on. FOO = Mom, Dad, Myself, & Younger Sister (18 y/o). My dad's mother left my sister and I $90,000 when she passed...
View ArticleFOO: Enmeshment and Narcissism. LONG--Update-5, email from mom-7
I did an original post about my husband and his family here but as time goes on and I read her more im starting to look at my FOO more. I'm also in therapy and my therapist knows I like to read a lot...
View ArticleSIL is mean to our adopted daughter, MIL doesnt care - UD page 13, 25, 38
BG : DH and I met 10 years ago in my home country. He was a student and he lived next door. We talked everyday, fell in love, and got married 8 years ago and i followed DH move here. We wanted child...
View ArticleMIL...
Went to the in laws tonight for dinner and they litterally get on my nerves! My MIL kept saying multiple times that I'm going to go in labor this month without a doubt. (I'm not due till middle of...
View ArticlePIL's come to our house instead of going home
Update: DH is posting for himself starting page 17. Ok, so I'm mostly posting this for my DH. He's carefully banned himself from his phone at the moment so he won't start spewing venomous words. So...
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