So I've posted before about my MIL, but need to know how to handle this issue with my BIL.
BIL is q recovering drug addict. He's been clean a little over a year and lives with my in-laws. We were supposed to spend two nights at my in-laws for Christmas. We show up tonight and find out that BIL has relapsed and they suspect he is using.
I have a three month old baby and am terrified by the unstableness of having him anywhere near an active drug addict. My in-laws keep saying that he's never been violent before, so I'm unreasonable to think he would harm me or my child, but I don't care, I don't want to be around an active drug addict - period. Also, its pretty clear that BIL is jealous of DH and our family. Am I totally out of line to cut the visit short and leave now?
BIL is q recovering drug addict. He's been clean a little over a year and lives with my in-laws. We were supposed to spend two nights at my in-laws for Christmas. We show up tonight and find out that BIL has relapsed and they suspect he is using.
I have a three month old baby and am terrified by the unstableness of having him anywhere near an active drug addict. My in-laws keep saying that he's never been violent before, so I'm unreasonable to think he would harm me or my child, but I don't care, I don't want to be around an active drug addict - period. Also, its pretty clear that BIL is jealous of DH and our family. Am I totally out of line to cut the visit short and leave now?