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Over reacting? Am i really being a selfish beep

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Am i over reacting? Inlaws got my 2 year old son a balancing bike. No pedals, brakes or training wheels and im upset because feel like me and fiancé should have control of the firsts with our son. I wanted to take him tothe store and let him choose what he wanted. When saying that it was inappropriate based upon just his age, (no to mention he has bad balance hat we are workig on with therapy) was informed im a selfish bitch and should be grateful they want to do all the grandparent things.


Its not just about the bike right? Hes 2. And has everything he needs and we asked them nt to go over board because we want to teach him its not about getting gifts, besides the fact that they give too many gifts all year long anyway even after bein told that it will be donated and has. Dont get me started on those fights.Told them we were only giving a couple of gifts because he has too much already. And they bought him way tooo many things.


I am also not a selfish bitch for wanting to raise my son to not be a spoiled brat and asking them to respect the way we want to raise our son. To disregaurd our boundaries and then say 'im so sorry but...' and when called out that apologies dont have buts in them get told to shut my smart ass mouth.


After a 4 month timeout, that they disregarded but said they gave us space. Continued contact after being told there would be none possed me off. And the only reason why im forced to suffer is because DFs grandparents had a ctj meeting even though i said i refused to compromise my sons health to these ass holes or mine.


So much shite, and duf is ready for it all to be water under the bridge, even though the anxiety, stress and anger push me closer to my 7 year life expectancy currently. I broke down on tears tonight after askig what he expected me to do when standing up to his parents when he refused to. Looks at me with teary eyes and says that he might as well just shoot me since all hes doing is making me suffer and cant make himself change.


Ladies and gents, what do i do to kill his unicorn and save our relationship before they cause me to leave fonally, after 6 years of toleratin their bull?

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