When I got home from work today I got an email from a friend of younger sis, telling me to Google something and that she was concerned for my sis. I did, and found out that FBIL is a registered sex offender. His victim was a 12 year old girl when he was 18 and he spent 8 years in prison. He has a lifetime of the register.
I let this person into my home. He (and my sis) have watched my los while I was out running errands. My rug-sweeping moo is trying to play this off as a 'they were dating and the girl's parents didn't like it so they called the cops' scenario. To me, this is beyond ludicrous. I feel like my sis probably believes that story, but doesn't know the real age of the girl. I asked my moo and she tried to tell me the girl was 15 or 16, which obviously isn't true (from our registry).
Rug-sweeping moo also tried to say that she had her brother check out the story and it panned out. I believe this was a planned out lie for when and if she was ever confronted with the situation.
He is marrying my YSIS this fall and I am supposed to be a bridesmaid.
Do I talk to YSIS about this?
Do I still act as a bridesmaid even though nothing on earth makes me want to vomit more right now? How do I approach that conversation?
Do I co rug-sweeping moo because of the level of rug-sweeping and the seriousness of the offense? (There are many other issues there).
I let this person into my home. He (and my sis) have watched my los while I was out running errands. My rug-sweeping moo is trying to play this off as a 'they were dating and the girl's parents didn't like it so they called the cops' scenario. To me, this is beyond ludicrous. I feel like my sis probably believes that story, but doesn't know the real age of the girl. I asked my moo and she tried to tell me the girl was 15 or 16, which obviously isn't true (from our registry).
Rug-sweeping moo also tried to say that she had her brother check out the story and it panned out. I believe this was a planned out lie for when and if she was ever confronted with the situation.
He is marrying my YSIS this fall and I am supposed to be a bridesmaid.
Do I talk to YSIS about this?
Do I still act as a bridesmaid even though nothing on earth makes me want to vomit more right now? How do I approach that conversation?
Do I co rug-sweeping moo because of the level of rug-sweeping and the seriousness of the offense? (There are many other issues there).