I got married, and didn't change my last name. Been married a while, this is nothing new. My mom, who jumps at every chance to make me look bad or to try and control me, has booked me and LO a ticket to go see her and my dad. Great, I'm really grateful for that.
Except, she booked the ticket in my husbands last name and told me if I want it I need to change my last name. She refuses to acknowledge I kept my maiden name.
I'm pregnant so maybe I overreacted but she told my dad "i thought she changed it I didn't know!" Just 2 DAYS ago we had the convo about how I am not changing my last name and how it's still upsetting some of my in laws. She's now trying to paint me as ungrateful and argumentative. I texted me dad saying thank you for the ticket, but I needed to change the info on it because my last name was not my husbands last name. He was totally fine and said he didn't realize and changed the info immediately.
She texted me basically saying "this discussion is over. I didn't know" I simply responded "this was never up for discussion in the first place".
She likes to do rude or PA things and play the dumb card. Should I apologize? I feel ungrateful but I'm tired of the disrespect over me wanting to keep my maiden name. I'm sick of everyone on both sides of my family trying to bully me into a name change when I don't want it!! Am I overreacting?
Except, she booked the ticket in my husbands last name and told me if I want it I need to change my last name. She refuses to acknowledge I kept my maiden name.
I'm pregnant so maybe I overreacted but she told my dad "i thought she changed it I didn't know!" Just 2 DAYS ago we had the convo about how I am not changing my last name and how it's still upsetting some of my in laws. She's now trying to paint me as ungrateful and argumentative. I texted me dad saying thank you for the ticket, but I needed to change the info on it because my last name was not my husbands last name. He was totally fine and said he didn't realize and changed the info immediately.
She texted me basically saying "this discussion is over. I didn't know" I simply responded "this was never up for discussion in the first place".
She likes to do rude or PA things and play the dumb card. Should I apologize? I feel ungrateful but I'm tired of the disrespect over me wanting to keep my maiden name. I'm sick of everyone on both sides of my family trying to bully me into a name change when I don't want it!! Am I overreacting?
