My mom and I have always had a rocky relationship. I've always just taken the abuse over whatever slight she thought happened. There's tons of background I can provide in the comments if necessary. Anyway to the current problem. I worked for my mom for years and the beginning of this year my therapist started having me read Toxic Parents and it was eye opening. I cut back all sorts of household expenses and quit my job in May and blocked my mom on my phone using Mr. Number. I didn't talk to her directly until just before her 4th wedding in September. At the time with the update to my phone and Mr. Number I could not see my blocked messages, I can now currently see them and I'm not sure how to proceed. I will put screen shots in the comments.
BG to the text messages any money I owed her I have paid back in full and have it in writing including paying her for the appliances she is mentioning in the messages. Bellaire is for ****trigger**** as a minor I was sexually abused by an ex step uncle for ten years including an almost rape at 11yo on a family vacation. ***end trigger*** I was a minor at the time of the interview with the police when I turned him in and they legally needed a parent with me.
As far as a relationship goes I don't want one at all but she thinks everything is fine right now and keeps texting me. I have BH everything the last 48 hours even though we will see each other Saturday at a funeral. Do I act as if everything is fine until after? She is defiantly one to cause a scene.
BG to the text messages any money I owed her I have paid back in full and have it in writing including paying her for the appliances she is mentioning in the messages. Bellaire is for ****trigger**** as a minor I was sexually abused by an ex step uncle for ten years including an almost rape at 11yo on a family vacation. ***end trigger*** I was a minor at the time of the interview with the police when I turned him in and they legally needed a parent with me.
As far as a relationship goes I don't want one at all but she thinks everything is fine right now and keeps texting me. I have BH everything the last 48 hours even though we will see each other Saturday at a funeral. Do I act as if everything is fine until after? She is defiantly one to cause a scene.