So I came here about a month ago and you girls helped me out so here I am. So back story. MIL assumed she would be in the delivery room and stay with us a month to help(hold the baby and drive me crazy) with the baby. DH didn't originally support me and wanted her there. i got some balls from here- made it clear to DH that he didnt need to be at the birth either if he couldn't support me. I told MIl again no way in hell and DH called her and explained that HE decided that he wanted to be the only one there and no one was staying with us at all for a long time. He's a momma's boy so I was proud.
So my dumbass thought it was over. Well it's Christmas Eve and were in another state and our phone's started blowing up from DH siblings. Apparently MIL is crying about how she failed as a MIL and she doesn't know why I hate her (funny part is that I adored her until this BS). So now his siblings all think I need to apologize to MIL... I was never rude to her, just firm and then very firm when she tried to boundary stomp some more. DH is upset that she's upset but he said no one is apologizing. But now I have a whole side of the family trying to "help me" compromise and figure this out so that I don"t ruin Christmas for them.
I dont feel like standing up for myself is a reason to apologize and Im afraid she'd see it as my Hell No to coming here wasn't a firm Hell No. I also don't want to be the bitch who ruined Christmas. keep in mind no one has talked about this shit for almost a month until MIL brought it up.
So my dumbass thought it was over. Well it's Christmas Eve and were in another state and our phone's started blowing up from DH siblings. Apparently MIL is crying about how she failed as a MIL and she doesn't know why I hate her (funny part is that I adored her until this BS). So now his siblings all think I need to apologize to MIL... I was never rude to her, just firm and then very firm when she tried to boundary stomp some more. DH is upset that she's upset but he said no one is apologizing. But now I have a whole side of the family trying to "help me" compromise and figure this out so that I don"t ruin Christmas for them.
I dont feel like standing up for myself is a reason to apologize and Im afraid she'd see it as my Hell No to coming here wasn't a firm Hell No. I also don't want to be the bitch who ruined Christmas. keep in mind no one has talked about this shit for almost a month until MIL brought it up.