BG: DUH has quite a big family who holds each other at the highest regards. DUH has sisters who he thinks of as their mother. DUH and I have talked divorce many times but have a LO. So last year when had our baby no one in his family came to visit or celebrate with us. One of his sisters (she is my BEC, and has made numerous comments to insult me) completely ignored us and never saw the LO. She has this power on him, anyways now after a year she decides she wants to come and see our LO. DUH is completely ok to it to my shock, I guess people never change. This is giving me anxiety attacks, she is horrible, passive aggressive, gives wrong advice, and just manipulative. I have not talked to his whole family for almost a year and to me they are CO but now they are making their way back in our lives and DUH is ok with it. I really dont want to see her, what are my options. Divorce is on the table, and we are talking about it. DUH wont let me take my LO and leave the house for when she is visiting. I dont want to see her. Please advice
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