So I stopped engaging both my parents in conversation 3 weeks ago. I was just looking at houses online as we are considering moving due to how close we live to my my parents. I bought farm land from them 11 years ago so we live very close. Well my husband saw what I was looking at and it got him on a rampage. He then said I'll always hold a torch for my parents. Then says I continually engage my parents. This makes no sense as I told him I was not reading anymore texts from my mom and if there was anything important to let me know. He has probably read 20 texts and he only told me about one which asked the time of a play my kids were in. He said it was OK to tell them and even prior to the text my counselor told me to tell them (which i know was bad advice now). Well all my response was the time the play was. Nothing bad happened at the play. Saw them in the corner of my eye and avoided with no issue. Received texts after which I read none of and of course did not respond to. Also I'm looking at homes online. So not sure how that means I'm holding a torch. And we discussed when my daughter is born he would call my dad on our way home from the hospital to avoid a visit as I'm keeping minimal contact with him-the enabler to my mom. My husband obviously dislikes my family with a passion but he was so irrational about it I said F U to him. I can honestly say I've never said that to anyone in my life. I feel like I've come so far and made a lot of leadway, and don't get the criticism. We have been on the same page about everything until this criticism comes out of nowhere. Anyone else have the same issues and how do you deal with it?
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