I'm a lurker on this board and I know this is supposed to be about in laws but I'm not sure where else to post this. My parents are alcoholics. We are not close. I think they would like us to be but I'm not interested in being involved with alcoholics which they are aware of. I told them before I had kids I would not bring my children over because I don't want them to be around booze or drunk people. They are manipulative people who make it look like to others I'm a mean daughter who doesn't bring there grand daughter around. The same people who would not come to her mid afternoon birthday because they wanted to party elsewhere... Aka get drunk. They have little respect for boundaries and just show up unnannounced... Sometimes hung over. The most recent time my daughter was sick and I told them
No visitors. They showed up anyway. I told them not to do to this and cAll first. Since then .., we have not spoken ... That was a month ago. I don't think I'm done anything wrong but if you feel differently let me know. Part of me feels guilty about not making an effort for my daughters sake but I want no part of booze or drunks.
No visitors. They showed up anyway. I told them not to do to this and cAll first. Since then .., we have not spoken ... That was a month ago. I don't think I'm done anything wrong but if you feel differently let me know. Part of me feels guilty about not making an effort for my daughters sake but I want no part of booze or drunks.
