I am new to this board and have done a bit of lurking but not a ton. I am posting to ask for honest advice regarding my narc MOO. About a year ago I confronted my mother about memories I have from childhood. The terrible thing is it is a tough subject as I realize now as an adult that I was conceived from an affair. Several years ago the father who raised me committed suicide. I began counseling after his passing & all of the memories began to surface. My MOO immediately denied my confronting her on her lies to me about my conception & proceeded to call my entire extended family (including my dad's parents who are in their 80's whom I adore) to enlist them as flying monkeys after telling me I must be possessed by a demon (WOW). Only my aunt & uncle were willing to tell me the truth & support me. Now I am prego & about to deliver my 4th child & she is attempting to contact me. I have not spoken to her for months. Should I even consider counseling with her (across the country). Or stand firm?
↧