maybe some of you gals remember me. my old account is on a defunct email address, and I can't remember my password.
My Big Sis(BS) has been completely cut off for well over two years now, with no recent problems. Sure I've missed the big extended family christmases, and whatnot, but it's a good trade off.
About a month ago my little brother got engaged, and the wedding is this summer. I'm excited. My mom and I are doing the flowers and centerpeices. I was having fun ...until today, when my mom reluctantly passed along a message from BS; BS's work offers free mediation, and BS would like me to go get gas lighted, so that we can both attend the wedding, yadda yadda yadda.
Until that moment, BS hadn't even crossed my mind. Now I'm having a **crap** moment. Should I just do the flowers and skip the wedding? Should I attend and act like BS doesn't exsist? What tactic should I use? fsil will likely think I'm bsc if I do the first, and one of us might actually go bsc if we both attend. Like I said-crap :/