I'm four months pregnant and getting married next summer. I met DF in Vegas while both vacationing. It was in 2013. I lived on West Coast, he on the East Coast. After long distance communication, we decided someone had to move and it was me. I moved into his condo. I moved last year. His parents live two hours away from us. We're in the city.
On weekends his mom comes to the city and stays with us. It was the norm even before I moved. The first few months were ok with her coming, but then it got on my nerves. When I moved in, I brought few things with me and we arranged his condo by incorporating his and her things. When she was here one time, she took it upon herself to rearrange the condo to her liking, and boxed up some of my stuff. I was furious because I felt she didn't want me with her son. He told her she had no right in changing our furniture and decorations. She apologized and said Itll never happen again as she only did it because the colors and arrangements were odd. He told her, it's our liking and what we do makes us happy.
The next weekend she was here,I was livid. We were in our room making out, and she was in the living room watching tv. It led to us having sex. In the morning, she told DF he needs to get his bed springs checked, as the squeaking noise from the previous night, was loud. If the TV is on loud, you can't hear the bed. During that weekend, she lowered my esteem. I cooked food, and instead of being thankful, she criticized it, and made comment how she feared for DF health in getting nutrients because to her, I was cooking junk.
When we found out we were expecting, we drove out to their house in the week to tell them. This baby is her third grandchild. She was beaming and said she couldn't wait for the baby to come. I had chosen a doctor and she went online for his ratings complaining how he was poor and I should choose one to her liking. So she stayed a week to go with me to the new doctor.
We only have two rooms so she's not going to be able to visit on the weekends. She caused an uproar recently. My mom has never been to visit me, so DF and I planned for my moms visit. His mom never called to say she was coming the weekend, as she usually does. My mom came the Wednesday, Friday, we got a knock and it was DF mom. She knew my mom was visiting us. So we had them with us. She slept on the couch.
We started making plans for the nursery. She wants to come spend time to help with the nursery. We told her it made no sense as there's nowhere to sleep. She said the couch. She thinks Labor Day weekend is great to be here.
She Skype me everyday asking about the baby, how my body is and what the doctor says. We plan to do a babymoon, and she wants to come, as she's never been to the country were going to. I told her she's being nice, but we need alone time. She doesn't get it. She's here this weekend, and been pissing me off.
How do I get this dealt with?
On weekends his mom comes to the city and stays with us. It was the norm even before I moved. The first few months were ok with her coming, but then it got on my nerves. When I moved in, I brought few things with me and we arranged his condo by incorporating his and her things. When she was here one time, she took it upon herself to rearrange the condo to her liking, and boxed up some of my stuff. I was furious because I felt she didn't want me with her son. He told her she had no right in changing our furniture and decorations. She apologized and said Itll never happen again as she only did it because the colors and arrangements were odd. He told her, it's our liking and what we do makes us happy.
The next weekend she was here,I was livid. We were in our room making out, and she was in the living room watching tv. It led to us having sex. In the morning, she told DF he needs to get his bed springs checked, as the squeaking noise from the previous night, was loud. If the TV is on loud, you can't hear the bed. During that weekend, she lowered my esteem. I cooked food, and instead of being thankful, she criticized it, and made comment how she feared for DF health in getting nutrients because to her, I was cooking junk.
When we found out we were expecting, we drove out to their house in the week to tell them. This baby is her third grandchild. She was beaming and said she couldn't wait for the baby to come. I had chosen a doctor and she went online for his ratings complaining how he was poor and I should choose one to her liking. So she stayed a week to go with me to the new doctor.
We only have two rooms so she's not going to be able to visit on the weekends. She caused an uproar recently. My mom has never been to visit me, so DF and I planned for my moms visit. His mom never called to say she was coming the weekend, as she usually does. My mom came the Wednesday, Friday, we got a knock and it was DF mom. She knew my mom was visiting us. So we had them with us. She slept on the couch.
We started making plans for the nursery. She wants to come spend time to help with the nursery. We told her it made no sense as there's nowhere to sleep. She said the couch. She thinks Labor Day weekend is great to be here.
She Skype me everyday asking about the baby, how my body is and what the doctor says. We plan to do a babymoon, and she wants to come, as she's never been to the country were going to. I told her she's being nice, but we need alone time. She doesn't get it. She's here this weekend, and been pissing me off.
How do I get this dealt with?