I'm a lurker and usually look for advice that's given to those in need. I'm depressed and lost with mine, I've made good friends on here, but decided to be private. There are triggers.
History: DH and I have been married for 10 years and struggle with pregnancies. We've lost our babies at 9 wks, 14 weeks, 9 wks, 18 wks, 28 wks. The last pregnancy was at 28 wks, but our DD survived for a week.
My MIL is a cold hearted person. She's been married five times and thinks she's always right. When DD passed, DH and I were broken completely. We stopped communicating, he focused on his work and was distant. He started eating at his parents and just comes home to sleep.
Depressed and nowhere to turn I spoke with MIL. I never thought she'll be mean to me given what I've been through. Straight off the block it was revealed how DH isn't happy with the losses. She felt it'll be good for her son if he was let go so to be with someone who can give him what he wants. Her other kids have children, but DH is the only one who hasn't gifted her. She doesn't want him be miserable and sad while wasting his money for something he'll never get.
I spoke with him on what she said. He doesn't agree with her and felt she was wrong. We spoke to her together and she apologized, she was wxpressing hurt and didn't mean it the way I interpreted it. Yet she felt a marriage stagnant was wrong to be in.
On Facebook when she comments on her friends posts, she always says how she wished DH got his baby. She has six grandchildren, and wants two more.
I'm hurt.
I need outside advice.
History: DH and I have been married for 10 years and struggle with pregnancies. We've lost our babies at 9 wks, 14 weeks, 9 wks, 18 wks, 28 wks. The last pregnancy was at 28 wks, but our DD survived for a week.
My MIL is a cold hearted person. She's been married five times and thinks she's always right. When DD passed, DH and I were broken completely. We stopped communicating, he focused on his work and was distant. He started eating at his parents and just comes home to sleep.
Depressed and nowhere to turn I spoke with MIL. I never thought she'll be mean to me given what I've been through. Straight off the block it was revealed how DH isn't happy with the losses. She felt it'll be good for her son if he was let go so to be with someone who can give him what he wants. Her other kids have children, but DH is the only one who hasn't gifted her. She doesn't want him be miserable and sad while wasting his money for something he'll never get.
I spoke with him on what she said. He doesn't agree with her and felt she was wrong. We spoke to her together and she apologized, she was wxpressing hurt and didn't mean it the way I interpreted it. Yet she felt a marriage stagnant was wrong to be in.
On Facebook when she comments on her friends posts, she always says how she wished DH got his baby. She has six grandchildren, and wants two more.
I'm hurt.
I need outside advice.
