I had another thread but can't link as I am on mobile. My mom is not a very good person and very narcissistic. I have been trying to find ways to cut her off for awhile, it's hard when you feel bad that your parent is mad at you. Brainwashed I know! Anyways, she tried to guilt me into picking up her medicine tonight and I told her I didn't have the money (I do, but she already owes me) but if she was paying is be glad to go get it! She says never mind.
About a second later I get this text "Im gonna cry. OP just text and asked how I was and I was telling her I forgot to pick up my meds at the pharmacy and I can feel it being its been over a week and she completely shut me down and said Well walgreens is closed and I dont have money?? I am really offended and hurt. I am sick and she asked. I was going to have her get my visa first."
I am freaking pissed! I have always done everything she asks of me and never get any respect. I'm tired and just emotionally drained.
I sent this back. "That's not how the conversation went but glad to know how you feel about me when I'm trying to make sure you're ok. I've been nothing but nice and you turn around behind my back and tell lies to gain pity from others while making me out to be a monster. I have always done what you asked. I even offered to go get it. I'm tired of you walking all over me and making me feel bad. I'm done."
My question is how have you awesome ladies grown balls and kicked these type of people out of your life? I get panick attacks thinking about it but I know it has to be done for my own sanity. I really could use all the advice you can give me!
About a second later I get this text "Im gonna cry. OP just text and asked how I was and I was telling her I forgot to pick up my meds at the pharmacy and I can feel it being its been over a week and she completely shut me down and said Well walgreens is closed and I dont have money?? I am really offended and hurt. I am sick and she asked. I was going to have her get my visa first."
I am freaking pissed! I have always done everything she asks of me and never get any respect. I'm tired and just emotionally drained.
I sent this back. "That's not how the conversation went but glad to know how you feel about me when I'm trying to make sure you're ok. I've been nothing but nice and you turn around behind my back and tell lies to gain pity from others while making me out to be a monster. I have always done what you asked. I even offered to go get it. I'm tired of you walking all over me and making me feel bad. I'm done."
My question is how have you awesome ladies grown balls and kicked these type of people out of your life? I get panick attacks thinking about it but I know it has to be done for my own sanity. I really could use all the advice you can give me!
