BG: MIL is my BEC and I'm pretty sure it's mutual. We have very low contact and are cordial, seeing each other maybe once every two or three months for a couple of hours.
MIL wants DH to take our kids over tomorrow to make me a craft for Mother's Day. It's the day afterwards and my gut is telling me this is only to have them over without me so she can play mommy. I think she is doing it to come across as nice and in a way to make it hard for me to say no, but just to have this time to exclude me. I'm looking for wise DWILers' opinions on the current issue. She is my BEC but it doesn't sit well with me, her motives.
MIL wants DH to take our kids over tomorrow to make me a craft for Mother's Day. It's the day afterwards and my gut is telling me this is only to have them over without me so she can play mommy. I think she is doing it to come across as nice and in a way to make it hard for me to say no, but just to have this time to exclude me. I'm looking for wise DWILers' opinions on the current issue. She is my BEC but it doesn't sit well with me, her motives.