My mom watches my lo on days both myself and DH work. It is great, she is a nicu nurse of 35+ yrs so I am super comfortable with her .as our primary babysitter. I have absolutely nothing to worry about with her.
The issue is this: at the end of June my mom will be volunteering at vacation bible school at our church for half days for one week. That week we will need a babysitter for 3 of the mornings. Right now, our only option is MIL. I am sick to my stomach at the thought of this. She has no common sense and I am so worried she will use this time to hold lo the whole time instead of sticking to Los normal schedule. I am not even sure I can trust her to heat breastmilk properly. Is there any advice for how to deal w this? I can't stand her and just the thought of her grimy hands being all over my precious baby for a few.hours is stressing me to no end. Help please!!
The issue is this: at the end of June my mom will be volunteering at vacation bible school at our church for half days for one week. That week we will need a babysitter for 3 of the mornings. Right now, our only option is MIL. I am sick to my stomach at the thought of this. She has no common sense and I am so worried she will use this time to hold lo the whole time instead of sticking to Los normal schedule. I am not even sure I can trust her to heat breastmilk properly. Is there any advice for how to deal w this? I can't stand her and just the thought of her grimy hands being all over my precious baby for a few.hours is stressing me to no end. Help please!!
