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How do I get my sil (dh brothers wife) to slow the info train?
Bg: I don't really enjoy her presence. We get "along", because I fake it. She doesn't think before she speaks and says things that are just plain stupid and insensitive.
Our Lo's are 20 days apart , hers being the older one. She is constantly comparing them and I hate it! They just turned 20 months. But 20 days is alot when they were weeks old! They asked if my lo was holding up his head? I said no, he's only 2 weeks old well Bob is! Well he's 5 weeks old!
When they were younger I would share a bit. Ex, "isn't cute when they try and share food with you" sil: "bobs not even feeding himself " (snotty face). So I stopped sharing anything with them because it was not well received.
She is constantly texting me pictures, updates, and accomplishments. Even though I haven't sent or said anything since around 5 months old. I always say "cute" or don't respond. My dh has even told her not to share some much! Yet here she is texting me! She says she just wants to hear how we are all doing, but I feel she is just waiting for her turn to "talk". I really don't believe she is actually interested in how my lo is doing unless it's her lo is doing "better"! I'd by some chance she does ask my response is usually "doing (really) well he's getting big!" And honestly that's all I'd like to hear from her! Not that her had 3 accidents, is saying words x, y, and z, climbed this or ran into that, ate a, b, and c! To much info! I always bean dip! But she's not getting it! Help!
How do I get my sil (dh brothers wife) to slow the info train?
Bg: I don't really enjoy her presence. We get "along", because I fake it. She doesn't think before she speaks and says things that are just plain stupid and insensitive.
Our Lo's are 20 days apart , hers being the older one. She is constantly comparing them and I hate it! They just turned 20 months. But 20 days is alot when they were weeks old! They asked if my lo was holding up his head? I said no, he's only 2 weeks old well Bob is! Well he's 5 weeks old!
When they were younger I would share a bit. Ex, "isn't cute when they try and share food with you" sil: "bobs not even feeding himself " (snotty face). So I stopped sharing anything with them because it was not well received.
She is constantly texting me pictures, updates, and accomplishments. Even though I haven't sent or said anything since around 5 months old. I always say "cute" or don't respond. My dh has even told her not to share some much! Yet here she is texting me! She says she just wants to hear how we are all doing, but I feel she is just waiting for her turn to "talk". I really don't believe she is actually interested in how my lo is doing unless it's her lo is doing "better"! I'd by some chance she does ask my response is usually "doing (really) well he's getting big!" And honestly that's all I'd like to hear from her! Not that her had 3 accidents, is saying words x, y, and z, climbed this or ran into that, ate a, b, and c! To much info! I always bean dip! But she's not getting it! Help!