So, I posted previously about my MIL making a super offensive comment to me on the day DH and I announced my pregnancy. Here is the BG:
http://community.babycenter.com/post/a63618007/question-about-mil-intentions?cpg=4
DH's father is an avid bridge player and has been asking DH if he and I would play with him and MIL. At first I said NO, but I started to feel bad because DH was so sad. You have to have 4 players and DH's father has not been in great health (DH actually used his health to guilt trip me) and I just felt I could suffer through an evening of bridge with terrible MIL to make DH happy and allow him to spend time with his dad doing something his dad loves.
Now that the day has come where we are seeing them, I am absolutely dreading it. I have definitely decided NEVER AGAIN, and DH will just have to find a different bridge partner or do other activities to spend time with his parents.
I havent seen MIL since she was last a huge bitch to me, so I am wondering what my best strategy would be going in. I am leaning toward just being polite but distant/subtley cold. How would you guys act around her? Mind you, I havent seen her in a month and prior to her making her biggest p/a comment, I was always super warm and friendly in the past. I don't even know if she is aware that she said something offensive/has offended me.
I dont plan to address the comment or other behavior tonight unless she were to bring it up.
ETA: The evening is going to be spent at mine and DH's house. Neither of us have played bridge so FIL will be teaching us the basics. I am 11 weeks pregnant now and can easily use nausea as an excuse to call it a night if I need to.