I know this isn't a vent board, but I desperately need the support right now. I'm in tears, and don't know what to do from here. I have bg.
Today was my sons 1st birthday. Everything went great! He loved his cake, and with the help of some of you and my bb, we did not open gifts and no one asked about them.
At the end of the evening lo was getting tired. I walked in the back yard where my husband had him earlier and my mil was holding him. He was tired, and when I walked over I said you look tired, and he reached for me. So I took him. End of story. Apparently, that was hurtful, because I "never" let my inlaws side see them, and I "never" let them old him. Regardless of how often they hold him, he's my son, I'll take him if I feel the need too. I guess this upset duh so he left. Which, by him leaving caused everyone to question why he left. I went looking for him, called him, and he said he was upset I took lo from his mom. I wasn't having the conversation on the phone in front of guests, so I told him to come back, to try and act like everything was fine, but he refused. The plan was for duh to take lo home so I could help clean up. So, probability wrongfully done by me, I walked in the house where my mom, mil, and gmil were in there kitchen cleaning, and I asked what happened to make duh mad and leave. I said that there should be no reason he should be mad and I am confused as to why he is. I was a little pissed so it wasn't in a nice tone. I know, wrong place. I then asked my gmil to move her car for me as she was parked behind me, and I needed to take lo home. She said sure. Before I walked out mil said, well it because you took him while I was holding him. I said very firm that, yes I took him, he was tired, and reached for me, he's my son, I'll take him if I need too. She just nodded.
Then gmil and I walk out so she could move her car. I had no problems with her before, and we were talking nice when I asked her to move her car. She said...(here we go) "I'm gunna say one thing before I leave". To summarize what was said, I need to grow up, I have problems that need to be fixed, I don't know what the deal is, and grow up. She then proceed to go over to my own grandmothers sitting on the porch to continue bad mouthing me, saying I keep my son away from them, and they never see him. So I have my grandmothers trying to yell at me. Mind you, all of this happened while I was holding my 1 year old boy. So I left.
I'm a mess. Duh is not as pissed as he should be about this, still arguing with me, saying "I'm not supporting them, but....". I can't handle it. I'm usually very strong, and can handle myself, but I've been crying non stop, and can't seem to pull myself together. I don't know how to handle this situation, and j don't know how to handle me.
Oh, this is great. I'm 13 weeks pregnant too.
Today was my sons 1st birthday. Everything went great! He loved his cake, and with the help of some of you and my bb, we did not open gifts and no one asked about them.
At the end of the evening lo was getting tired. I walked in the back yard where my husband had him earlier and my mil was holding him. He was tired, and when I walked over I said you look tired, and he reached for me. So I took him. End of story. Apparently, that was hurtful, because I "never" let my inlaws side see them, and I "never" let them old him. Regardless of how often they hold him, he's my son, I'll take him if I feel the need too. I guess this upset duh so he left. Which, by him leaving caused everyone to question why he left. I went looking for him, called him, and he said he was upset I took lo from his mom. I wasn't having the conversation on the phone in front of guests, so I told him to come back, to try and act like everything was fine, but he refused. The plan was for duh to take lo home so I could help clean up. So, probability wrongfully done by me, I walked in the house where my mom, mil, and gmil were in there kitchen cleaning, and I asked what happened to make duh mad and leave. I said that there should be no reason he should be mad and I am confused as to why he is. I was a little pissed so it wasn't in a nice tone. I know, wrong place. I then asked my gmil to move her car for me as she was parked behind me, and I needed to take lo home. She said sure. Before I walked out mil said, well it because you took him while I was holding him. I said very firm that, yes I took him, he was tired, and reached for me, he's my son, I'll take him if I need too. She just nodded.
Then gmil and I walk out so she could move her car. I had no problems with her before, and we were talking nice when I asked her to move her car. She said...(here we go) "I'm gunna say one thing before I leave". To summarize what was said, I need to grow up, I have problems that need to be fixed, I don't know what the deal is, and grow up. She then proceed to go over to my own grandmothers sitting on the porch to continue bad mouthing me, saying I keep my son away from them, and they never see him. So I have my grandmothers trying to yell at me. Mind you, all of this happened while I was holding my 1 year old boy. So I left.
I'm a mess. Duh is not as pissed as he should be about this, still arguing with me, saying "I'm not supporting them, but....". I can't handle it. I'm usually very strong, and can handle myself, but I've been crying non stop, and can't seem to pull myself together. I don't know how to handle this situation, and j don't know how to handle me.
Oh, this is great. I'm 13 weeks pregnant too.
