So, last year my husband gave his parents an old Ipad of his,they are computer illiterate and I guess he wanted to help them get online. Well, he didnt realize it was still like connected to his phone, emails, photos etc. I was super annoyed by this, like they have plenty of money, how hard is it for them to buy their own Ipad?
Anyway, yesterday morning my husband woke up at 4am to go hunting, let our dog outside which proceeded to bark loudly at something, waking up the whole neighborhood I'm sure. Then he comes upstairs all pissed, yelling that he cant get the dog in and he's leaving and I need to get the dog in. I'm pregnant and been having insomnia and was not very happy about this but whatever. So I text him after he drives off, half joking "your an asshole". Ok, I understand that wasnt nice of me to say, but whatever, he was being an asshole and I was exhausted.
This morning I get a text back from DH's number that says "Hey *** (my name), its you're an asshole!"
Yes, I realized my grammar was incorrect but it was 4:30 am and I was exhausted. I get a text later from dh that says, "butt dial, I didnt send that?" We met up later and he was like I for sure didnt sent that text. Well, we find out it was his mother, who apparently has been getting his text messages on this Ipad that is still for some stupid reason connected to DH's phone?!? Like, what else has she seen on there?? She had left him a voicemail confirming it was her, and told him that he wasnt an asshole. I'm of course super embarrassed, they probably think I'm a psycho calling him that, but dh even admitted he was being a jerk and apologized to me later that day and I'm hormonal and tired, and, yes I know I shouldn't have texted him that. How do I respond to this? Should I just ignore it?
I went on to Dh's phone and disconnected his messages from showing up on the ipad, which he promises he had already done so we have no idea how it got synced back up with the ipad. MIL and I already have a rocky relationship, due to me not being a full time baby maker like the rest of her daughter in laws and some other issues. This is my first pregnancy and we havent told them yet, so I wonder how long she's been reading his texts and could have seen something about me being pregnant already.