I don't know what to do. This woman intoxic! She always has been. Dh and I are very surprised on how she has been so far with lo since she's been here but I knew it was too good to be true. This woman went ahead and told people that we were pregnant when we specifically told her we needed to wait until the first trimester was completed. My family has a history of miscarrying so we wanted to wait. What did she do? Went ahead and told people she thought didn't matter. His brother and my 2 best friends all found out before we could tell them. Needless to say she has lost my trust completely.
Anyways, I find out from my sil that mil is pissed off at me because I wouldn't leave my 1 week old with her when we went to visit Them after lo dr app. After the app when we swung by to visit, She told me that dh and I were going to take sil to lunch, and I said okay no problem. Then she proceeds to tell me that I'm leaving the baby with her so she can watch her. I said absolutely not; I'm not going to leave her sorry. So from then on out she's been upset. I'm sorry lo is 5 1/2 weeks and I'm still not ready to leave her!!
Mil is so unbelievably jealous of my parents it's insane... and I don't know what to do about it. I obviously go to my mom for every thing because 1, it's my natural instinct to go to my own mom. And 2, my mom isn't crazy!
Dh and I took lo to the pumpkin patch this weekend and just wanted to have a calm relaxing weekend to ourselves, you all know how overwhelming it is with visitors the first month. I don't think dh and I have had a single day alone with baby. So it's starting to get on my nerves that someone is always dropping by. So we told everyone we need a few days by ourselves and of course mil got pissed off. She took it upon herself to start face timing us every day!!!! Now dh and I are just plain pissed.. sometimes he won't answer but she will keep calling until we answer. When he finally answers pissed off she acts like she doesn't know why he's upset and and continues to ask to see the baby. It doesn't matter if she's sleeping or on the boob she HAS to see her.and yells abnoxiously loud through the phone to wake up the baby.
Dh told her she needs to stop face timing us every day because it takes literally a half hour to and hour to get her to hang up. Well another guess what? She's pissed off at us for telling her to not FaceTime every day and to give us our space, and telling everyone all her friends and his side of the family that we aren't letting her see baby. Blah blah blah. I could go on!
Now we literally the next few weekends are so damn busy, wich is why we went to the pumpkin patch last weekend. But she says she is taking baby to a pumpkin patch whether we go or not. I told her no, if she goes we go. And that's that. I forgot to mention that she is an acloholic and pack a day smoker. Someone who I do not trust to be alone with my daughter. Also who has been in I don't know how many car accidents, she know she will not be driving my baby around. She just told me the other day that she is afraid of pissing me off because I have the power to make it so that she doesn't see her grand daughter. But it still doesn't seem to phase her. I don't know what to do, dh ALWAYS sticks up for me and tells her things that she isn't allowed to do but she makes our lives a living hell. But I don't want to say that she isn't allowed to see her because I don't want that, with as crazy as she is she can be decent some times. And she's my dh mom so I can't.
Anyways, I find out from my sil that mil is pissed off at me because I wouldn't leave my 1 week old with her when we went to visit Them after lo dr app. After the app when we swung by to visit, She told me that dh and I were going to take sil to lunch, and I said okay no problem. Then she proceeds to tell me that I'm leaving the baby with her so she can watch her. I said absolutely not; I'm not going to leave her sorry. So from then on out she's been upset. I'm sorry lo is 5 1/2 weeks and I'm still not ready to leave her!!
Mil is so unbelievably jealous of my parents it's insane... and I don't know what to do about it. I obviously go to my mom for every thing because 1, it's my natural instinct to go to my own mom. And 2, my mom isn't crazy!
Dh and I took lo to the pumpkin patch this weekend and just wanted to have a calm relaxing weekend to ourselves, you all know how overwhelming it is with visitors the first month. I don't think dh and I have had a single day alone with baby. So it's starting to get on my nerves that someone is always dropping by. So we told everyone we need a few days by ourselves and of course mil got pissed off. She took it upon herself to start face timing us every day!!!! Now dh and I are just plain pissed.. sometimes he won't answer but she will keep calling until we answer. When he finally answers pissed off she acts like she doesn't know why he's upset and and continues to ask to see the baby. It doesn't matter if she's sleeping or on the boob she HAS to see her.and yells abnoxiously loud through the phone to wake up the baby.
Dh told her she needs to stop face timing us every day because it takes literally a half hour to and hour to get her to hang up. Well another guess what? She's pissed off at us for telling her to not FaceTime every day and to give us our space, and telling everyone all her friends and his side of the family that we aren't letting her see baby. Blah blah blah. I could go on!
Now we literally the next few weekends are so damn busy, wich is why we went to the pumpkin patch last weekend. But she says she is taking baby to a pumpkin patch whether we go or not. I told her no, if she goes we go. And that's that. I forgot to mention that she is an acloholic and pack a day smoker. Someone who I do not trust to be alone with my daughter. Also who has been in I don't know how many car accidents, she know she will not be driving my baby around. She just told me the other day that she is afraid of pissing me off because I have the power to make it so that she doesn't see her grand daughter. But it still doesn't seem to phase her. I don't know what to do, dh ALWAYS sticks up for me and tells her things that she isn't allowed to do but she makes our lives a living hell. But I don't want to say that she isn't allowed to see her because I don't want that, with as crazy as she is she can be decent some times. And she's my dh mom so I can't.