My grandmother is not well. I CO off my father and so I'm not sure what to do when she passes. I'm thinking I should maybe avoid the Wake and Just go to the funeral and sit at the back. I know it will hurt my aunts if I'm not there at the Wake. We are not close by any means but when we see each other in public we are friendly. I do not want to see or talk to my parents but is it selfish to not attend the Wake or funeral when a family member dies because I want to avoid them or should I consider the feelings of my aunts?
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