I CO moo back in May
http://community.babycenter.com/post/a62627035/mothers-day-am-i-making-too-big-a-deal-out-of-it.-update-pg-3-ed-showed-up-at-my-house?cpg=13
Well, in that time I have gotten about five or six messages from my Aunt and at least five phone calls. I have mostly BH'd. They range from telling me in the creepiest terms how much she loves me and how I need to help her find MOO and SOO who are living in a car somewhere about two towns from me.
Here's an example:
"God bless you my Eternal Love, another year, and I have yet to hold your daughters in my arms....and today comes around - a very special day - the remembrance of the day in which to me; a child was born - today a beautiful woman, wife, and mother. I can only flood the Holy Heaven of God with Praises and thanks givings for you - my Eternal Love. Yes OP you are my Eternal Love, because I shall love you till I breath no more. And today I wish to thank you for loving me regardless of all else. Yes OP today I thank God for you and for your family. Today my heart is filled with so much, that I don't words to express it all. God know how special you are to me - today and always - and forever. Receive the warmest hug from this old person who loves you to no end. HAPPY BIRTHDAY - May our LORD render you many, many, many more each more wounderful then the previous ones."
After I CO my MOO this is what Aunt started sending:
MAY 18TH, 8:29AM
JUN 9TH, 1:50PM
JUN 9TH, 3:01PM
JUN 15TH, 4:01PM
JUN 22ND, 1:10PM
AUG 13TH, 11:27AM
From here she changed tatics and started calling. I let it go to Vmail a few times and would breifly text back. I answered once or twice and explained I had CO and had no further intention of contacting MOO. Then, a few days ago and I got a call from a number I didn't recognize. It was my Aunt. She said she was concered about hurrican Matthew and our house. She then started asking about my past memories and punishments that my mom had done to me. TIGGER Things like making me kneel in dry rice and hold encyclopedias. She apologized for not saving me and explained over and over how the whole family didn't know what to do and my dad had to leave her since MOO made up accussations of his molesting us. MOO almost ruined my FOO and had my SOO and I believing that he had abused us. It was horrible reliving it and once I had my wits about me I got off the phone after asking her to please give me room and that I never wanted to talk about it again. END TRIGGER
The day after I went to friend's house to pick up some maternity clothes. MOO lived with this friend'ss MIL and tried to screw her over. Subsequently MOO got kicked out this past April. The friend told me that she bumped into MOO a few weeks ago and MOO looks horrible. She didn't see my SOO. So now I know for sure MOO is still local.
Then today in the mail DH received this dated 10/15. It's typed and I don't recognize the handwriting on the envelope,
"Hey DH,
This is a little something I got for you for Father's Day. I got it a little before the mentioned day. I actually kept it in my car. As time came to mail it out Ibecame very busy with Life's demands and many other things. In short as I was cleaning out my car I found it.
I apologzie for the delay. I hope you enjoy it. I am including the receipt so you know this amoun and can see the date of purchase.
I hope you had a happy father's day and you enjoy the gift.
MOO"
Enclosed was a starbucks card and receipt.
There's nothing I can do with this since there's no return address but I'm so tired of it all. So am I right to keep BH's aunt from this point? Should I go farther than BHing? And may I ask what's the difference between TO and BH? And is there anything I can do about MOO?
ET to fix formating issues.