I have made it extremely clear that I would not like my picture taken.
I've had multiple people in my family asking if I could send them pictures, and I've been very blunt about telling them no.
About a month ago I found pictures on my MIL camera during my Fiancé SIL baby shower of me. When she knew I said I didn't want my picture taken or anything like that. Normally I would've deleted it had it been my mothers camera or something, but I let it go.
2 days ago I caught my mother taking pictures of me and when I asked her what the hell she was doing she kept trying to play it off like "Oh nothing !" Like I'm not stupid. Then she kept laughing about it because I kept getting more and more pissed off about it. So when I finally started to freak out on her and asked her what she was doing she said she was sending then to my father. (Mind you they have never gotten along and since the day I turned 18 haven't spoken a word to one another. And I've told my father I would not send him a picture, and he's gone so low to ask my Fiance for pictures who has also told him no, and now he is texting my mother for them).
So I started to get nasty with her because I've made it clear that I don't want my picture taken. So she started freaking out on me saying fine I won't send them.
Yesterday when my fiance got home from work he told me that my mother asked him to call her. She wanted to ask what the issue was between me and my father and why I was so upset the day before when I left her house. He told her that I did not want my picture taken and that I've said it multiple times and no one will listen to me. And that my father has contacted other people about pictures after I've said no. She then proceeded to tell him that there had to be more and that he didn't know what he was talking about. Like wtf?
1. How are you going to ask my fiancé to call you to ask what's wrong with me. If you have an issue call me. Don't bother him while he is working.
2. How dare you tell him he doesn't know what he is talking about when he knows everything, and you are the one who asked him. If you think you know then why did you ask?
So now I'm just pissed off. I've made it very clear, even as far as making a Facebook post about 2 months ago, about not wanting my picture taken. And I want to do it again because clearly people aren't respecting my wishes of not wanting my picture taken. But my Fiancé told me not to because he doesn't want me to piss people off. But yet the way I see it is its okay for people to piss me off?
I feel stupid about being mad over something so dumb. But like why can't people just respect what I've asked?
I've had multiple people in my family asking if I could send them pictures, and I've been very blunt about telling them no.
About a month ago I found pictures on my MIL camera during my Fiancé SIL baby shower of me. When she knew I said I didn't want my picture taken or anything like that. Normally I would've deleted it had it been my mothers camera or something, but I let it go.
2 days ago I caught my mother taking pictures of me and when I asked her what the hell she was doing she kept trying to play it off like "Oh nothing !" Like I'm not stupid. Then she kept laughing about it because I kept getting more and more pissed off about it. So when I finally started to freak out on her and asked her what she was doing she said she was sending then to my father. (Mind you they have never gotten along and since the day I turned 18 haven't spoken a word to one another. And I've told my father I would not send him a picture, and he's gone so low to ask my Fiance for pictures who has also told him no, and now he is texting my mother for them).
So I started to get nasty with her because I've made it clear that I don't want my picture taken. So she started freaking out on me saying fine I won't send them.
Yesterday when my fiance got home from work he told me that my mother asked him to call her. She wanted to ask what the issue was between me and my father and why I was so upset the day before when I left her house. He told her that I did not want my picture taken and that I've said it multiple times and no one will listen to me. And that my father has contacted other people about pictures after I've said no. She then proceeded to tell him that there had to be more and that he didn't know what he was talking about. Like wtf?
1. How are you going to ask my fiancé to call you to ask what's wrong with me. If you have an issue call me. Don't bother him while he is working.
2. How dare you tell him he doesn't know what he is talking about when he knows everything, and you are the one who asked him. If you think you know then why did you ask?
So now I'm just pissed off. I've made it very clear, even as far as making a Facebook post about 2 months ago, about not wanting my picture taken. And I want to do it again because clearly people aren't respecting my wishes of not wanting my picture taken. But my Fiancé told me not to because he doesn't want me to piss people off. But yet the way I see it is its okay for people to piss me off?
I feel stupid about being mad over something so dumb. But like why can't people just respect what I've asked?