Me and my husband have cut off his mom completely. She has always hated me and relentlessly sends us emails like the one below. We filtered her emails, but she created a new account just to send this latest 4 page letter.
I wanted to share it with you fine ladies and gents for a couple of reasons.
1. To fill some drama lamas
2. To give me validation that she is indeed well beyond crazy.
3. To read your amusing commentary on this amazing letter. I have already left comments in blue, but would love to know what DWIL has to say about it also.
Enjoy!
Here is the letter:
A (my husband) & S (Me),
This is what I will describe as my “come to Jesus communication with you both”; so sit back and read this together. I am very direct in my words as you are aware, and as your mother A, I am responsible for teaching you. Jesus was direct in his communications also; so just deal with what I have to say to you both. You need to learn and understand some things.
I have been compelled to share some insights with you that I am sure you are not aware of – that you need to be aware of:
During my last mother/son visit with A , while playing ping-pong - I wanted to discuss BodyTalk with him, but he was threatened by S not to talk about it. ***Nope, I never told him he couldn’t talk about it. If he didn’t want to hear about it, it is because he didn’t want to.
All I was able to say was that I could BodyTalk Anyone Anywhere – all I need is a Proxy.
With that said, I thought it prudent to share with you both that I have BodyTalked you both over the past couple of years…and here are the results:
ThThe first year of your marriage A was plagued with chest/heart pain. This pain was caused by his wife S, inflicting the emotions of: HEARTACHE, Vulnerability, Depression, and Worthlessness. (Every pain and illness is symbolic in our bodies – so it was linked to his heart/chest= heartache.) ***Actually, he had chest pain that started several years before we even met.
2. The second year of your marriage A was plagued with severe headaches. This pain was also caused by his wife S, inflicting the emotions of: Efforts Unreceived, Failure, Unsupported, and Worthlessness. (From her constant demands, nagging, ragging, complaining, etc. that his Head had to listen to.) *** My husband is wondering what headaches she is referring to. He may have had an occasional headache. We did have a newborn that caused some sleep depravation, but he never had severe headaches.
3. In January 2016, for A’s birthday (since I was not allowed to talk to him) I BodyTalked him, to see how he was doing – and I learned that his pain was in his stomach/abdomen area. This pain was caused by his wife S, inflicting the emotions of: Efforts Unreceived, Lack of Control, Hopelessness, and Worthlessness. (All “gut-wrenching” comments, actions, demands, etc.) *** We were in the hospital with our toddler on my H's birthday. If BodyTalk/ her magical mind powers actually worked, she would have known that
4. In June 2016, I BodyTalked A again, to find the same repeat issues as #3.
5. However in July of 2016, I was strongly prompted to BodyTalk A – only to learn that Every Part of his Entire Being was Being Negatively affected by his wife S – and linked to the emotions of Depression, Frustration, Worthlessness, and several other emotions. ***Wow.
6. For S – when she was pregnant with baby #2, I decided to do her a favor and figure out what was causing her over-active bladder issues. Her body told me that when she was about 12 years old, her sister was raped. She linked this situation to her bladder and the emotions of Hopelessness, Lack of Control, and Frustration. *** Couldn't have been that the baby was sitting on my bladder. Haha. Oh, and I never had a sister raped when I was 12 yrs. old and if I did (which I didn't), I certainly didn't know about it.
7. A few weeks ago, I worked on S, only to find her angry that her baby (#3) hadn’t been born yet. And she was angry that her legs and feet were swollen, so I tried to give her some relief. *** I was actually praying really hard that the baby would stay in until I was scheduled to be induced. We moved the week earlier and I really wanted my mom to be here to watch our 2 toddlers. Her mind magic is failing her.
8. A few months ago, I worked on S and asked why she was always angry and mean to A. Her body told me that she had witnessed other marriages where the husband was unkind to the wife, so she decided to be the dominant/mean person in the relationship – that way her husband could not treat her unkind/mean. This response caused me to BodyTalk her parents.
9. I BodyTalked her father first – and learned that his brain felt like “mush” from his accident. He linked the emotions of Shock and Worthlessness to this situation. *** My dad's brain is not mush! He is a highly intelligent man.
10. I then worked on S’s mom – and learned that she has abdominal/intestinal problems. These problems all stem from her husband’s mental and emotional abuse/unkindness. She linked these situations to the emotion of Worthlessness – as they were “gut-wrenching” to her. ***This makes me so mad. I have never even seen my parents argue! I have never, never, never seen my dad ever say an unkind thing to my mother. He treats her like a queen!
11. I worked on child #1 (I took out names of my kids and they will just be referenced like this), and learned that she has Vaccinated Induced Autism. (I didn’t try to fix that –as I assumed you wanted her to be that way.)*** My 2 year old doesn't have autism. MIL hasn't even seen her since she was a baby.
12. I worked on child #2, and learned that he has several Vaccinated Induced Issues – that will show up later. Most likely poisoning to his Pancreas/Spleen, and will be a Diabetic and Insulin dependent the rest of his life – as are 2 out of 3 children these days – due to the poisoning. (I didn’t try to fix that either –as I assumed you wanted him to be that way.) *** Wowzers, she can diagnose something my child doesn't even have yet from hundreds of miles away! Incredible!
13. I tried to BodyTalk S after giving birth to baby #3, to help her with a speedy recovery, however since I need a Proxy to perform this service, no one in my household was willing to be a proxy….(Do you wonder why? hmm...I don’t…
You don’t need to worry about me BodyTalking any of you in the future.
I have no reason to help either of you.
I guess this is what you described as “the Law of Natural Consequences”.
I will not interfere with her agency to be destructive – nor will I continue to fix the damage she causes to A or to your children. *** No more fake diagnoses' for her to cure? What will we do?!
Because I compared S to D (MIL's 2nd ex H) , I wanted to share with you the fact that she is so much like him that she even used His Exact Words…
”She is out to get me! You need to protect me from her!” ***I never said that, but even if I did, it is probably true. The woman is crazy!
All while she is indeed the destructive and abusive one, but pretends to be the Victim -
Just exactly like I said in all of my previous communications to you.
I am still amazed that A doesn’t remember how D (her ex H) worked people all with the Extreme Pathetic Emotion and even the Fake Tears – just like S does. S has no emotion other than anger. ***This was news to me! Any other emotion is fake – as she admitted to me in our last phone conversation. ***Yeah, I never said anything like that. That would be wierd.
D behaved in this manner because he was extremely physically abused by his father.
S behaves this way because she is a spoiled brat and needs to be spanked.
Let’s be fair and finish the sentence: “She is out to get me – to stop my nonsense!”
A - for you to say that "you need to protect your family from your mom!" Really? *** Well, you do write some pretty scathing emails, but...
I don’t know who I should be more disgusted with – S for convincing A of deceitful and destructive information - or in A for believing and supporting her Deceitful and Destructive stories - and becoming like her – to pacify her demands.
Shame on Both of you. Shame, shame, shame.
I have sat back for an entire year now, giving you guys enough rope to prove who and what you are. S has been successful in not only Proving Everything I Have Said about Her to Be True and Accurate, but in destroying my Son and my Family.
I have absolutely nothing good to say about S, as I know nothing good about her.
I have learned that the only things that appear to be good about her are all fake.
Do you have any idea how much I loathe fake people (?)
S’s “superior sisters” were wrong– telling her that “I would do anything to be around my grandchildren” ***My superior sisters have never said this. – thinking I would put up with S’s (BS) in order to spend time with my grandchildren. Or that I would kiss her buttocks to be around my grandchildren.
FYI - the only buttocks I will ever kiss is K’s (MIL’s current H) – and that is only because he kisses mine. ***Yuck!
FYI - I will never submit to S's demands for worshipping her, or control.
FYI - the only person I will ever submit to is Heavenly Father or Jesus; and S is on polar opposite ends from being like Them. I have told you before – control is of the Adversary. ***Again. Wow!
I tried to spoil S while she lived in (same state as her) – only to be stabbed in the back –sliced at the knees – and lied about more times than I can count, only to cover her own bad behavior.
I abhor liars with every inch of my entire being and soul.
It seems the more gifts I gave to S, the more she resented me because she wanted reasons to have A hate me or feel sorry for her – to create the distance she finally has been able to achieve.
I felt like I was in competition with her every time I gave a gift to A or child #1 – as S’s gifts needed to be the best gifts – or she would get angry. ***Nope, I never cared.
I have no desire or need - to send gifts to children that I am not allowed to be around – so you can quit the nonsense about that too.
I also sold my quilting table and quilting machine, so T and C (MIL’s adult daughters) would have room to live with us – so you will never receive another “ridiculous blanket” from me in the future. (That is how S described them.) ***MIL made amazing quilts. I only ever praised them, so I am not sure where she got this apparent quote from.I put way too much time, money, and love into the quilts I made for you to put on your bed, only to know that the babies are allowed to pee and puke on them. *** Because I love it when my kids pee and puke on my bed. I hope you burn the quits I made for you – you don’t deserve them. ***I already gave them away to my superior sisters for their kids to pee and puke on.
You don’t deserve anything I have given to you. You are two very ungrateful spoiled brats.
Why is S so mean to T? Is S afraid that T and I talk bad about her? *** I have never done anything to T that was mean. What about all of the mean things S has said about me and T?
Everything she complains about me and T - is everything she does – but she wants to appear like the poor picked on victim – when you are actually the creator of the problem. My children and I loved each other before S. But S was jealous of the relationship we “used to have” with A, so she made sure to destroy it – and keep it destroyed – BUT mark my word S – we all will have to face God for our actions. You may be able to fool A, but you can’t fool Heavenly Father with your deceitful nonsense. *** MIL destroyed her relationship with her son (my H) all on her very own. I did everything I could to try to keep the relationship with his crazy mom going... until she crossed super major lines.
Provide me with one good reason I should be nice to S (Other than the scripture that says to love your enemies!)
1. S treats A like (sh--) and A submits to her obnoxious demands - all while he is trying to be the best possible husband and father. *** I have always tried to be kind to my H.
2. S treats C (MIL’s daughter) like (sh--) and C tried to submit to S’s demands.
3. S treats T (MIL’s oldest daughter) like (sh--) and T didn't say or do anything unkind to her. *** Except call all of their extended family to tell them I am abusive and awful. No biggy.
4. Does S realize that N (MIL’s youngest daughter) lives with us too – and has since summer? ***I am not surprised nor do I care. MIL's youngest daughter is 25 yrs. old, by the way.
A can enjoy all of the experiences of being controlled, abused and manipulated - until he has had enough. Then - and only then - will her behavior stop: When he stops it - and she knows it – that is why she keeps him away from everyone. I have said that 100 times before.
I am very familiar with the spoiled, selfish, sneaky, snotty, deceitful, destructive, mean, manipulative, narcissistic, behavior – and S continues to prove me right on all counts.
***That is quite the list. I am pretty much the devil-- maybe I have him outdone by now.
Give baby #1, baby #2, and baby#3 ( 3rd child's name spelled incorrectly) a kiss from their grandma.
They will know me - and love me one day.
I will always love you – but I will never love or tolerate your BS!
Good Luck in your very challenging future.
Love Always & Forever, Mom H
Because people are asking, here is a summary of BodyTalk:
BodyTalk is a type of energy healing.
BodyTalk practitioner has patient lay down. Then they place their hand under the patients wrist. Next the practitioner mentally asks the patients body questions and the way the wrist moves guides the practitioner to the problem. Once the problem is found, the practitioner has the patient place their hand over the problem area and then taps the patients head and then the sternum of the to communicate to the cells that that area needs to be fixed.
Apparently they can do this via proxy. Meaning the actual person doesn't even need to be in the room.
It is basically crazy mind magic that clearly doesn't work.