My h isn't usually too bad. But he's letting mil get to him. Last year we went to his brother's for Thanksgiving. We weren't happy with it. Bad food, no place to sit and boring. We promised dd we would do Thanksgiving at home this year. We would do all the things dd likes. Dd just turned 13. We would watch the parades, cook together, watch movies and look at Christmas stuff.
Mil and Sfil have decided to move into a retirement apartment. Mil wants to host her last Thanksgiving at her house. H tried to suggest that she do it on a different day. Dd and I would go if it was a different day. She won't budge. He told her he would come but dd and I wouldn't.
I am not happy. I'm not changing my mind. I can't stop him from going. But I feel like he is ruining Thanksgiving. I haven't really talked to him about it but he knows I don't like it. I think I'm going to want until next week and discuss it with him and remind him that we promised dd a Thanksgiving at home.
Any opinions on how to handle him?
Cathy
Mil and Sfil have decided to move into a retirement apartment. Mil wants to host her last Thanksgiving at her house. H tried to suggest that she do it on a different day. Dd and I would go if it was a different day. She won't budge. He told her he would come but dd and I wouldn't.
I am not happy. I'm not changing my mind. I can't stop him from going. But I feel like he is ruining Thanksgiving. I haven't really talked to him about it but he knows I don't like it. I think I'm going to want until next week and discuss it with him and remind him that we promised dd a Thanksgiving at home.
Any opinions on how to handle him?
Cathy