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I know I'm about to get ripped a new one here.. But I need advice

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I'll make this short. I can take brutally truthful thoughts and advice so hit me with the truth ladies.


I'll start off by saying I'm kicking myself in the ass for not having done something sooner.


My MIL is a different kind of soul.. She's the epitome of codependency on her children. My husband was adopted at birth so I feel as if she's loved his twin and him out of guilt to the point of crippling them.


She's done everything for them. She files his taxes, files for unemployment for him, gets him insurance, was managing his money, etc etc. She's a helicopter mom.


Needless to say I didn't really know the extent of this until after we got married. Boy should I have taken the warning signs but I'll admit I'm pretty dumb sometimes.


Now we are married and I told him to cut the chord, stop trying to suckle from the teet, etc etc and he thinks I'm supposed to do what his mommy has done for him all these years. I told him no, flat out.. Well guess what ladies and gentlemen the boy has run back to his mommy and she's more than thrilled to be back into his personal life thriving in her control over him.


Needless to say our marriage is on the rocks. I'm not trying to be married to his mama. I do know it's not just her fault it's his fault equally and

Mine for being too blind to see this from the beginning.


Blast me with the truth ladies! Let me have it! I need help.

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