I've been on this board for a little over a year, had to go anon since I have recommended this board to a few friends.
A little bg I come from a very poor family, I didn't like the poverty so I did what I could to break away, I never went to college for obvious reasons, I did odd decent jobs to make ends meet for myself, I have been staying alone for 6months, a small studio apartment and by far this is my greatest accomplishment. I have been saving and when I have extra I help my dad out and step mom (mom died In 2009) , I'm from a family of 6 and I'm the second born, I'm also in my mid twenties.
On to the problem, my elder sister still stays at home, she's been having problems with my dad and step mom and refuses to move out, when she's asked to move out her defense is, that house belongs to my late mom (my mom died when we were leaving in a different house) she's totally rude rolls her eyes and gives everyone a hard time when it comes to house chores. The thing is I think she's jealous of my little accomplishments, I recently started a cupcake business and I've been helping my parents more and more, I help willingly, no one pressures me to help at all. I also help this sister of mine from time to time.
A month ago I went to visit my parents (my step mom is an amazing woman) I talked to my sisters about challenges that I was going through and bad decisions I made, the purpose for this talk was because I didn't want them to go through some hardships that could be avoided. After I left, my elder sister rallied the other two (sorry if this is confusing, we're four girls and 2boys) against me, says how dare I lecture them just because I have money, she told my step mom to tell me that her and my other two sisters don't need my help at all. When I went home last week my step mom told me this, I didn't confront her at all instead I talked to my two sisters let's call them sis3 and sis4, they were shocked and said they didn't even know sis1(jealous sister) said that and it was lie. I left it at that and left the next day,
When turning my two sisters against me didn't work she had another strategy, two days ago, she told my parents that she doesn't understand why they accept gifts and cash from me when they don't know where it comes from, went ahead to tell them that I'm a call girl. This is not the first time, Everytime we argue she says things like 'at least I know where my money comes from and I work for it unlike you'
Sorry this is long
Yesterday my step mom told her to make dinner and she told her she won't, walked out and banged the door, my step mom told her not to come back, and she yelled at her in front of everyone saying that house is not my step mom's and she wasn't moving out. That's just the tip of the iceberg.
What I need to know is, is this Co worthy, I'm hurt that my sister thinks I sell my body for money, she behaves like my dad's third wife with her entitlement, this same sister that dated my ex who left her for her best friend has the nerve to say such about me.
A little bg I come from a very poor family, I didn't like the poverty so I did what I could to break away, I never went to college for obvious reasons, I did odd decent jobs to make ends meet for myself, I have been staying alone for 6months, a small studio apartment and by far this is my greatest accomplishment. I have been saving and when I have extra I help my dad out and step mom (mom died In 2009) , I'm from a family of 6 and I'm the second born, I'm also in my mid twenties.
On to the problem, my elder sister still stays at home, she's been having problems with my dad and step mom and refuses to move out, when she's asked to move out her defense is, that house belongs to my late mom (my mom died when we were leaving in a different house) she's totally rude rolls her eyes and gives everyone a hard time when it comes to house chores. The thing is I think she's jealous of my little accomplishments, I recently started a cupcake business and I've been helping my parents more and more, I help willingly, no one pressures me to help at all. I also help this sister of mine from time to time.
A month ago I went to visit my parents (my step mom is an amazing woman) I talked to my sisters about challenges that I was going through and bad decisions I made, the purpose for this talk was because I didn't want them to go through some hardships that could be avoided. After I left, my elder sister rallied the other two (sorry if this is confusing, we're four girls and 2boys) against me, says how dare I lecture them just because I have money, she told my step mom to tell me that her and my other two sisters don't need my help at all. When I went home last week my step mom told me this, I didn't confront her at all instead I talked to my two sisters let's call them sis3 and sis4, they were shocked and said they didn't even know sis1(jealous sister) said that and it was lie. I left it at that and left the next day,
When turning my two sisters against me didn't work she had another strategy, two days ago, she told my parents that she doesn't understand why they accept gifts and cash from me when they don't know where it comes from, went ahead to tell them that I'm a call girl. This is not the first time, Everytime we argue she says things like 'at least I know where my money comes from and I work for it unlike you'
Sorry this is long
Yesterday my step mom told her to make dinner and she told her she won't, walked out and banged the door, my step mom told her not to come back, and she yelled at her in front of everyone saying that house is not my step mom's and she wasn't moving out. That's just the tip of the iceberg.
What I need to know is, is this Co worthy, I'm hurt that my sister thinks I sell my body for money, she behaves like my dad's third wife with her entitlement, this same sister that dated my ex who left her for her best friend has the nerve to say such about me.