DWIL-lemma
So... on my debil newsfeed today, a post by a woman that I don't know popped up because one of my "friends" liked it. It was a grandmother announcing the birth of her granddaughter with a "you'd think...
View ArticleSo tired I don't even want to mention it UD 2, 3, 6, 7
Super minor issue, just sort of feel weird about where I am with it so would love some input. I've always been stubborn and fine with standing up for myself. I have no problem being firm and telling...
View Articlesister behaves like dad's 2nd wife and called me a call girl.
I've been on this board for a little over a year, had to go anon since I have recommended this board to a few friends. A little bg I come from a very poor family, I didn't like the poverty so I did...
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Stolen mermaid statue debacle u/d p2, 3, pic p8, guilt tripping VMs p20
Long time lurker with a new SN because I have no access to orignal bbc email. I don't really know where to begin other than to say there is A LOT of background. I can add some llama noms if necessary...
View ArticleMother Issue-Big Time
I need some advice. I'm at my wit's end with my mom. She has just turned so nasty with me lately. I'm the oldest of three children. I've always been independent. I've always been a good daughter. Never...
View ArticleNicknames UpDate 5,6,7,9,11,15, Trigger/no update 17, Bathroom ambush 17
Need some feedback on something that has been happening with the IL's. GMIL, AIL, MIL and others like giving our kids nicknames. Some aren't bad but others are downright annoying. DH & I have...
View ArticleMIL Ambush!! Up p3, 4, 5, 9, 10, 13, 16, 20, 23, 24, 26, 28, 30, 31, 36, 38,...
BG: http://community.babycenter.com/post/a51918541/awkward_update_and_warning_bells_p8_p7_p6_p4_p3_3_days_and_fms_and_more Things have been fairly quiet other then the random texts to SO that vary...
View ArticleMischief Managed (Well, I'm getting there...)p. 3, 63, 89, 125
This is a continuation of my last thread because glitchy. Background: http://community.babycenter.com/post/a50697532/its_starting_8_11_13_1417_26_38_45_58_59_61_65_67_70_71_80_101_help?cpg=204 No...
View ArticleHow to Prevent Boundary Stomping Prior to Pregnancy?
Good morning, lovely DWIL readers. I have been studying this group for a while now. It was originally to prepare for my DNi's arrival... my Bro and SIL had legit worries over my boundary destroying...
View ArticleMIL going to DH xmas party and I'm not? Normal meter check.
So my husband started a business with his dad (this was 10 years ago.) My FIL died of a heart attach in 2010. Since then, my DH and my BIL picked up that buisness that was later sold (2014) to...
View ArticleMIL text to DH, 3, 7, 13, 17, 21, 22, 25, 37, 41, 43
Hi, long time BBC member and lurker, first post under anonymous SN because people IRL know my other one. So this will probably be long. Some background, my MIL is my BEC. She's not dangerous, but she...
View ArticleI got a TO from my mom all because of Thanksgiving
I posted recently about the Thanksgiving drama with my brother and SIL (how my brother invited my SIL family to my Thanksgiving and because I said no SIL got mad) Anyways, I also invited my mom who...
View ArticleMy mom vs MIL
I'm going to be completely transparent in sharing this, but I feel the need to. DH has a horrible history with his mother. And since we've been together, MIL has transferred her verbal abuse to me....
View ArticleA literal CTJ! For the noms
Bg: My dad grew up in a very conservative family and his dad was a pastor/missionary. Literally my dad grew up as a missionary living in a third world country from the age of 3 months to 16 years. My...
View ArticleI think dh and I are ready to get serious
I've been lurking for about a year, posted once (not related to this post). Here we go: I've been married for 17 years, we have 5 daughters. MIL is my BEC. For the entirety of our marriage MIL has...
View ArticleNew baby, IL boundary issues Update page 21, 29, FM 32
Hi all this is my first time posting. I am a new first time mom with a newborn. My DH and I were CO from his parents for the entire pregnancy due to unprovoked physical assault by one of his parents on...
View ArticleCreepy McCreeperson SDad? *possible trigger* Loooong -Update p.11,17,19, 30
Okay ladies, please tell me if I handled this correctly or if I am overreacting. Last night I went to my mom's for Thanksgiving with my DH and LO who is almost 5 months old. It was one of the most...
View ArticleCreepy McCreeperson SDad? *trigger* -Update p.11,17,19, 30
Okay ladies, please tell me if I handled this correctly or if I am overreacting. Last night I went to my mom's for Thanksgiving with my DH and LO who is almost 5 months old. It was one of the most...
View ArticleAdvice on relationship between my mother and my daughter
I'm having a hard time in regards to my mom and having access to my daughter, who is now 7. I believe my mom has something seriously wrong with her mentally. I came to Canada when I was 11 ( now 26)...
View ArticleDe-enmeshing and a "loan" update 38, *triggers* 41
Previous updates: 1, 2, 4, 5, 8, 10, 12, 22, 23, 25, 30, 31, 32, 37 * * * Created a new account for anonymity because I don't want to get into complex/controversial BG. Brief BG: My parents have...
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