Issue with my mother, what a surprise
I'm sorry if this is long, but I know how important the details are in this board. So, I posted about issues with my mother a few months ago. Long and short of it, she got hurt at work and moved in...
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Desperate need of your advice!
Sorry but this is going to be a long one. Please read it and give me your input. FILs and I have always had a good relationship, but there were times I felt indifferent towards them and a slight sense...
View ArticleFIL tried to give my 7 month old beer. DuH says I'm overreacting
So I have posted once before and can link that when I'm not on my phone but I'm not sure it is relevant background to the current situation. This happened at thansgiving. MIL is my BEC but I usually...
View ArticleMIL Ignores our rules AGAIN
Needing a little advice - though if I'm being honest, I'm pretty sure I know what I'm going to do. So a few days ago, after months of my inlaws ignoring our request that no light up or plastic toys...
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Found this gem...and question
I was going through my emails to get rid of old junk. I found this gem. I CO years ago. Since then I continued to improve my life and have managed to get rid of almost all the drama in my life. You...
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My mother went a little nuts at a restaurant. pg.25, question pg. 28
I'm going to *try* & keep this short & sweet. I wish I would have posted last night while everything was super fresh, but oh well. I'm 37 weeks pregnant with number two (well..today I'm...
View Articlebirthday summons the final straw (narc FIL) **triggers** 23 serial updates
Long time lurker that occasionally comments. I have one other thread on DWIL that has helped me navigate issues with my FSM and dad (ITO for a few months that at this point in time see turning into a...
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My son is to white..
According to MIL & BILs.... 😒 I hate when they say he is to white, light skin. My H is mex, kind of dark. But im light, My mom is kind of dark, they would ask her i she babysat me lol. They always...
View ArticleMIL going to DH xmas party and I'm not? Normal meter check. Update 18
So my husband started a business with his dad (this was 10 years ago.) My FIL died of a heart attach in 2010. Since then, my DH and my BIL picked up that buisness that was later sold (2014) to...
View ArticleI'm shocked DH invited MIL to my papa's funeral Update pg 4
Quick breakdown of the situation: MIL is a narcissist. We have a low contact relationship with her. Over the past few years I found myself dealing with her more than DH did, because he's in the...
View ArticleMakes me sick!!
This article makes me sick! Sounds like Jennifer left a narc behind. I want to slam the writers of this article while at the same time being so grateful that I'm not famous so that my inlaws cannot...
View ArticleHow to politely tell MIL I don't want her here for a week right after I give...
my MIL is very sweet. She has good intentions. She's just a lot for me to handle during this pregnancy. When it's just us two, she goes in tangents about what her 3 ex husbands did to her, how her...
View ArticleBlouses!! 3, 5, 8, 10, 13, 18, 21, 22, 23, 24, 27, 31, 32, 35, 36, 40 Sum 46!...
I fear I am not handling things well. My mom is narcisissitic, however, not as bad as some others I see on these boards. Despite being told what a horrible daughter I am I usually try to give my...
View ArticlePIL Holiday Newsletter: Purposeful exclusion. WWYD?
PIL send out a "newsletter" to their distant friends and relatives (I have no idea really who is on the list to recieve one) every year. They update them on things that happened in the past year and...
View ArticleSo after reading Delivery Room Traumas
I have this problem on my mind and am hopeful this board may offer useful suggestions. Dh wants to call Mil and (SFil) to come watch Ods while I'm delivering Ds2 at the hospital. Mil alone I'm not too...
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Feeling guilty about CO my mother
I've posted here before about my crazy family and my decision to cut off my mother. My daughter was born in April and she somehow managed to call me about two weeks before my little girl was born and I...
View ArticleILs coming over... NEED TO SCREAM!
So, my ILs aren't pleasant people to be around. I've posted before about how everything changed 3 yrs ago when I had DD and MIL began treating me like I was less than. Only DD and DH mattered to her...
View ArticleI haz the feels... text 4
So, I had a drama free Thanksgiving. For the fifth year or so, I've cooked for my family and it was beautiful. Hubby had to go in for night shift (LEO) and kids and I watched a long awaited movie. It...
View ArticleDisowned updates 5, 7-8, 10, 12, 14,17, 24, 25, 29, 32, 35-36, 42, 47-48
I'm back...*sigh* Here is my BG: http://community.babycenter.com/post/a55082422 http://community.babycenter.com/post/a53432764/mil_will_not_let_baptism_alone I am trying to enjoy my TO with MIL. I...
View ArticleStop Sending us Money!
My husband and I are both students. My NPILs own several properties, one of which they let us live in for 2 years. We paid rent and bills, due to me being uncomfortable living there for free (which is...
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