In laws
I cut my DH parents and brother off last Feb. and he has decided that with how they all treat me not to have anything to do with them as well. We have given numerous chances, accepted apologies that...
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Found this old gem- MIL holds DH hand in wedding photos
I was just looking through my wedding pictures and I had to laugh when I saw a group of pictures with my MIL holding DH's hand. I had completely forgotten about this until I saw these pictures. Not...
View ArticleTired of being pushed around.
I have two step sons, and then my biological son. My FIL is horrible for basically doing whatever he likes to do with them even though we try to tell him our opinion on it. He doesnt listen. He used to...
View ArticleNarcFIL
Thanks origami for closing the old thread and sorry about the vio! TL;DR of the situation: NarcFIL and MIL wanted to co-parent LO. DH and I set boundaries which were stomped. We drop the rope and make...
View ArticleCTJ? Will it work
Gone anon for this. Looking for advice concerning my ILs. Lurker for about 6 months, with occasional commenting. Will try to be brief, but its a looong story so sorry!!! BGP on! TL;DR: Want to...
View ArticleHelp me let go.
Hi there! I have never posted but I have been a very silent lurker for a few months now. A little BG, my husband and I have been together for nearly 6 years and married for 3. When we got together I...
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'I know you better than you think'
My mum always pulls this line out, and its always really upset me. I've never been able to put my finger on why this is? I have background on them here but briefly; parents told my pregnancy news at...
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MIL Grip of Death photos
Could we see some more MIL Grip of Death Wedding photos? They're hilarious, creepy, and just all sorts of icky-poo. Of course, if there are other MIL Grip of Death photos that aren't weddings,...
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In law aways wants alone time with my kids. Not just being home, but taking them wherever they please. I'm always having to to say no. Sometimes I feel like they think they should have visitation...
View ArticleReady to snap at SIL
I'll start by saying that SIL and I had our babies less than one week apart. This is something that seems very minor and maybe I am overreacting, but I was just hoping for your opinions and advice. It...
View ArticleThe "One Visit Per Week" IL Rule. Aka, I Must Hate ILs -- UD 61, UD 62, UD...
UD 7, 11; ?-11, 15; 16; ?+ Fail 22; UD24, SS 25, 30, 31, 35, ?-37, 40 Studious lurker since i got pregnant and found BBC last August or so. Went anon cuz my username is really identifiable. The advice...
View ArticleOverweight Baby Momma; BG PG 6, Confrontation, CPS & A Car Accident...
My MIL has lost damn mind! I'll try to make this s short as I can. She lives about an hour (in good traffic) away from us. We don't see her very often. She doesn't work and has a mortgage on the house...
View ArticleSanta Claus
Hi All- This is sort of OT at the moment, though I think it will come up with inlaws at some point in the future. And might have come up for some of you, I would love to know. The situation in a...
View ArticleHoliday drama crazy meter question
Q: Am I being unreasonable? Truthfully do I need to budge? Background: My family has done Christmas on Christmas Eve for the last 15 years because typically my mom works Christmas Day. Usually we spend...
View ArticleMom wants to live with me, but I'm not ready for the intrusion
My mom is turning 65 end of this month and a widow since she was 56, she's been lonely since. Im the youngest of 3 daughters and she has always been living with the middle child. She doesnt get along...
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My mother went a little nuts at a restaurant. pg.25, question pg. 28, dad...
I'm going to *try* & keep this short & sweet. I wish I would have posted last night while everything was super fresh, but oh well. I'm 37 weeks pregnant with number two (well..today I'm...
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Need your help!
I had another thread but can't link as I am on mobile. My mom is not a very good person and very narcissistic. I have been trying to find ways to cut her off for awhile, it's hard when you feel bad...
View ArticleMIL gifts underwear
Hey now DWIL'ers. I'd love your take on this. Every year for Christmas, MIL gifts her sons with boxers. This skeeves me out. I've made casual remarks in passing, such as, "Wow, what an intimate gift!"...
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How do I handle this?
*I've been lurking here for a while, and I've read the stickies.* This isn't a major problem yet, but it may become an issue between SO and I after the baby is born... I'm currently 15w3d pregnant....
View ArticleMIL stays for 3 months every 6 months!
My MIL lives in Europe and likes to stay with us in the US (nowhere else she can stay) for 12 weeks at a time to spend with my husband and my LO (and another one due Feb 2016). Problem is, she and I...
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