I cut my DH parents and brother off last Feb. and he has decided that with how they all treat me not to have anything to do with them as well. We have given numerous chances, accepted apologies that apparently meant nothing and just given them many times to make things right. I just cannot do it with them anymore its not healthy.
Background:
They dont care for me, never have. Tell my DH and anyone who will listen i am crazy all because i am on anxiety meds. I had a traumatic birth with my daughter and was diagnosed with PTSD and anxiety. They will all talk about me and say the worst things about me to eachother. my DH has stuck up for me and sees how his family is so we agreed to CO.
My thing is my MIL and all of them have been blocked from our phones. She got a new number and even has went as far as sending letters to see what she can get the kids for Christmas. We have said in short simple text messages dont bother your CO she cannot take the hint. she will sit there and say they are his only family and make him feel so bad. Am i making the right choice cutting off this long or should i let them bring the kids christmas gifts? I think my thing is they have bad mouthed me to my own children and i fear they will turn them against me. Its just not healthy but again i feel for my husband
what would you ladies do? TIA