My in-laws are tough to deal with. mainly my SIL and MIL, we have dealt with theft from SIL and her husband, by way of cash when we drive down to visit to watches and video games during a move.
We live 6 hours away and my husband did this on purpose, to creat much needed distance between them and himself. they wouldnt call him except on fridays for money. since we got together about 3 years ago him funding them stopped and they didnt like this.
SIL loves to gossip and willt alk about anyone she possibly can, all we hear everytime we visit is drama drama drama, ruining the trip. she crosses the line with telling DH that our oldest is such a horrible kid and runs our house (she's 3) she has even gone to the extent of questioning if our 11 month old is his.
Both in-laws treat our 3 year old like crap, because she is not blood related. they told everyone when we had 11 month old dd that DH was giving them their first niece/grand daughter. we have mentioned this to them and they deny it up and down, but everyone else can see it. and that is probably the worst.
my husband is to the point now of totally shutting them out, because all we deal with is drama and thats all we hear about. Unless we are giving money to them or spending money on them we arent of any use. we found out we are expecting in august, and he told me not to tell them, he's not sure when or even if he is going to.
i need help, i dont know how to fix something like this i was told by someone that i will never be good enough for them because they dont even know who they are. and to just bite my tounge. biting my tounge is getting harder daily, but i know the second i try and confront anyone ill get nothing but lies thats got to be the most frustrating thing.
