My family has been wanting me to visit after the birth of my last child. She's due to be c sectioned out February 25. (Yay I can post the here!)
Earlier I get a invite to my cousins baby shower on the debil. I decline and write a comment " awwwww thank you for the invite but I won't be able to make it! Congratulations Cousin's name your almost there!"
So now I'm thinking I said the right thing. I don't want to be too mean nor do I want to give too much of an answer! Now my cousin is commenting asking me why can I come?? ITS HER BABY SHOWER . I will have a week old baby and a c section.
She's asking me to please come if I'm able to walk! Did I not answer correctly? I honestly can't remember what my last c section was like. I had so much going on that I didn't pay attention to my recovery or pain.
Eta:
I answered her back with just "we can arrange another time to get together! Enjoy your baby shower!
Earlier I get a invite to my cousins baby shower on the debil. I decline and write a comment " awwwww thank you for the invite but I won't be able to make it! Congratulations Cousin's name your almost there!"
So now I'm thinking I said the right thing. I don't want to be too mean nor do I want to give too much of an answer! Now my cousin is commenting asking me why can I come?? ITS HER BABY SHOWER . I will have a week old baby and a c section.
She's asking me to please come if I'm able to walk! Did I not answer correctly? I honestly can't remember what my last c section was like. I had so much going on that I didn't pay attention to my recovery or pain.
Eta:
I answered her back with just "we can arrange another time to get together! Enjoy your baby shower!