When You Are Not in the Family Portrait
I have one other anon post on here: http://community.babycenter.com/post/a60749266/white_house_pets_rage_stroke. May be relevant evidence of the massive PA and manipulation in PILs family but isn't...
View ArticleNarcFIL 61 when a narc writes the obit
Thanks origami for closing the old thread and sorry about the vio! TL;DR of the situation: NarcFIL and MIL wanted to co-parent LO. DH and I set boundaries which were stomped. We drop the rope and make...
View ArticleHow would you feel about this? Background throughout, 4,7,12, contact12 UD16...
Let me preface this with I am an only child who is the primary caregiver to my parents. My mother has a brain injury and an underlying personality disorder that makes her difficult at best. My dad is...
View ArticleDo i let them move in when i buy a house
So, my husband is the only son and with part of our culture, the son takes in their parents and cares for them. Now if my husband had brothers, any of them could take his parents in, but that's not the...
View ArticleBaby shower invite!*nowmooissuespg12*
My family has been wanting me to visit after the birth of my last child. She's due to be c sectioned out February 25. (Yay I can post the here!) Earlier I get a invite to my cousins baby shower on the...
View ArticleNarcFIL 65 GMIL "sick", FIL slips up
Thanks origami for closing the old thread and sorry about the vio! TL;DR of the situation: NarcFIL and MIL wanted to co-parent LO. DH and I set boundaries which were stomped. We drop the rope and make...
View ArticleSIL faking pregnancy (possibly)
**trigger about possible fake pregnancy*** My sister in law had her tubes tied 15 years ago. She got divorced and when she started seeing her new boyfriend last year they kept talking about having a...
View ArticleHow and when it's okay for ITO to be done? Long
Sorry that is long. This is 5 years in the making, so I'll try to get it down to the necessary parts, but I might include too much & forget other stuff. Background: DH is from a very enmeshed...
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My mom is deliberately hurtful. - UD 7, 9, 11, 18, 21, 24, 31
Almost four years ago, DH and I placed our son for adoption. My mother still hasn't let go of her anger over me "giving away her grandson" and still holds it over my head. DH and I found out we're...
View ArticleSIL wrote Mom letter....now its hit the fan...HELP! UD 18, 31,35, Q38, 43,...
I never thought I'd need advice about how to handle a situation with my Mom. So, here's the deal: My SIL wrote my mother a strongly worded email letting my Mom know that she thinks she's PA and make...
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Reformed MIL slipping back into old ways - UD page 7
I've posted before about my MIL. She haa been a problem since before we were married, constantly tried to take over our wedding plans and make things the way that she wanted them. LO was born at the...
View ArticleI know not my circus but....
Let me start off my saying I adore my xmil, her son was a complete idiot, but she stayed out of our problems and despite her son abandoning my kids, she has maintained contact with me because of the...
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My side of the family is on board, his is not.
My side of the family is 100% on board and fully supportive of me being a surrogate. While husband's side is super duper religious and thinks I am playing god trying to give people who can't have kids...
View ArticleMOO thinking she's a parent UD p1 and p13 it begins p 17 19
My DS isn't walking yet at 15 months. Of course I've asked my birth board, and pedi both say it's fine. Well the daycare recommended this state funded resource that will send a OT to our home to show...
View ArticleHow would you feel about this? Background throughout, 4,7,12, contact12 UD16...
Let me preface this with I am an only child who is the primary caregiver to my parents. My mother has a brain injury and an underlying personality disorder that makes her difficult at best. My dad is...
View ArticleHow do I nicely tell my fiancé I want less visitors?
Quick rundown... My fiancé and I just bought our house back in October. One of his cousins stays with us in an extra room we have. (Yes, he pays rent and bills) My fiancé's family is very close and...
View ArticleMil won't call future baby by name.
Hello! Luker, but have posted previously. My MIL will not call our unborn baby by his name ( Gerard). She keeps calling him ( JJ) and says she got it from DH. I told her we won't be calling him that...
View ArticleMIL thinks I'm having her baby Update: page 11
So I'm 39 weeks pregnant with my first. My husband and I are pretty excited, but the closer I get the more nervous I am about my inlaws (mostly MIL) Back when we first told them we were pregnant, we...
View ArticleHow do you refer to your MIL?
DH calls my FOO "mom" and "dad". I started doing the same with his FOO the day we wed, but after the conflict with her, her p/a, individual and couples therapy, I came to realization that it's better...
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Help: Grama Trust Fund
My LO's Birthday is coming up and I knew something would be coming very soon in the mail from narc fMIL. Well today 'it' arrived. A letter addressed to my DuH arrived with the following letter: see...
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