Conflicted about In-Law situation
I'm not a regular here but I read posts from time to time. I'm hoping for some insight here. I am prepared to listen to whatever you guys have to say. I'll be as concise as I can. I'm sorry if it gets...
View ArticleKeep it unread, or check for safety reasons?
I COd my sperm donor long before I found DWIL. Actually it's been just about 11 years exactly. He really was just a sperm donor, pretty much. My MOO divorced him when I was less than two and I have met...
View ArticleMil and sil starting to become my BECs
I has my lo on the 16th so she is a week old. Everything started off fine until I developed mild paralysis in my legs causing me to be readmitted to the hospital. My dh and baby have been with me the...
View ArticleNot again... Terrifying backflash FIL
Hello... This it me... I have two babies and currently preg with my third... Problem FIL Background: my FOO and my FIL are from South America... My Mother and father IL are now us residents... First...
View ArticleSo my DH's family doesn't matter...??
My mom's bday is next weekend, my DH's niece and nephew also have their bdays around the same time. We are driving 5 hours one way to go see my mom for her bday and plan on going to the kids' bday...
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Convo re MIL, and DH runs off? Therapy UD 16, 41, 49, 55, marriage counseling...
Very upset right now. Months ago, DH and I agreed that we would not tell anyone when I went into labor. It seemed like a non issue. Today, I come home from work and DH tells me he saw his mother....
View ArticleWas told to come here. Cross posted
Hi, I was told to come here. I'm from Jan '16 board. I've read the sticky and have my bgp on. Please be honest with me. I can take it.     From January 2016 Birth Club She fed him formula ...
View ArticleMom who walked out on her family wants back in
Lurker gone anon. My mom decided to walk out on my dad, my brother, sister and I many years ago. We were still kids, not teenagers yet, but old enough to understand what was going on. Our dad raised us...
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Late husband's family advice please
My husband died three years ago - four years in June. He was a healthy 33-year-old man and he died very suddenly. After my husband died, his family, especially his sisters and his mother, said some...
View ArticleFIL deliberately ignores me - Referred by coworker
Hi. I was referred here by a coworker. DH and I have been married for a few years. We dated for a year. From day one when I met his dad he literally ignored me. I honestly thought he might be blind or...
View ArticleNot IL issue- debil drama
This isn't an IL issue but I've been lurking here for over a year and made an account recently to comment on a post. I'm your textbook doormat trying to find my spine. I have a serious problem saying...
View ArticleI am done. UPDATE PG 23
So, that last straw happened at LOs first birthday party, which was in January. I was already sick of MIL from seeing her too much over the holidays. We were at the in-laws for xmas and she snatched LO...
View ArticlePie Pan MOO: UD 122, Notice & more 130's-140's, MOO News 158, We're out!...
Original post on 10/06/15. Updates:2,3,7,8,10,12,14-20,24,26,27, 31, 34, 35, (trigger) 36, 38, car door 41, Pie pan 47, Christmas visit requests 61, 63,64, 68, text 71, side track friend 72-73, SIL 75,...
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Exstep mom wont return contact attempts! WWYD?
My dad and ex step mom divorced 4 years ago, they had two children together, who are now 10 and 8(i think). I havent seen either of them in 3 years. My stepmom was like a mother/friend to me, I was...
View ArticleHow would you feel about this? Background throughout, 4,7,12, contact12 UD16...
Let me preface this with I am an only child who is the primary caregiver to my parents. My mother has a brain injury and an underlying personality disorder that makes her difficult at best. My dad is...
View ArticleHe did it again
I am a long time lurker posting for the first time. I need advice regarding my BIL who is right now my BEC. I feel like it's more of a DuH problem but I think I just don't want to see it that way. Me...
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CO Mother trying to resume contact, UD pg 8
Background: My mother is a boundary-stomping narcissist. My childhood was tumultuous, we argued all the time well into adulthood. We have very little in common and have drastically different views on...
View ArticleHELP
So my mil have had issues before but she tucked her tail in between her legs and we moved on. Well. Now we're not speaking. We didn't get lo a flu shot for various reasons and she knows that. She...
View ArticleOutrageous gift from CO MIL
Longtime DWILer but new account because of too obvious screen name. MIL has been CO for a blissful three years and counting. Neither of us have unicorns for her. She's never met our latest LO. She...
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It wasn't Christmas cancer, it was Thanksgiving cancer- trigger
Here is the tread for my background info: http://community.babycenter.com/post/a51558619/silmil_tried_to_hijack_shower_ud_p2_4_8_13_14_27_30-_foo_drama_34_pics_38-39 I just wanted to do a check up...
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