HELP

So my mil have had issues before but she tucked her tail in between her legs and we moved on. Well. Now we're not speaking.


We didn't get lo a flu shot for various reasons and she knows that. She babysits at least once per week. So last week she posted pics one evening of my baby, multiple people holding her and hugging on her at the high school she works at. I'm by no means a germaphobe but I am upset she took my baby to a high school during flu season (also 2 weeks after she had a major eye surgery so there's still risk for infection). The main reason I'm upset is me and dh neither had any clue she was out and about with lo. What if they would've got in a wreck? I am furious and my husband confronted her and do u know what she said? SHAME ON HIM


So shame on him for sticking up for his wife and baby? Please someone give me advice


Now she's mad and me and dh are basically being shunned from the family (other than giving lo to them to babysit...which I am highly uncomfortable with)