I COd my sperm donor long before I found DWIL. Actually it's been just about 11 years exactly. He really was just a sperm donor, pretty much. My MOO divorced him when I was less than two and I have met him maybe three times in my entire life. I even legally severed his parental rights when I was 20 years old, and had my step-dad adopt me.
Every here and there I would get debil messages from him. (For those of you who will tell me to block him, Oh wow, great advice, so glad I didn't think of that.) I currently have at least 15 of his accounts blocked. He just makes a new one. Changes a letter here, deletes a P and uses an F there, just crazy shit. I used to read the messages and then just not respond, but he is starting to ramp up. Last monthish I noticed I had four messages from him including a video. I did not read them, but I am going to admit the video makes me nervous. What if it is of me, or my kids, from afar? (or not so far?)
I'm selling someting on the debil through a swap site, and the person is not my friend. I went to check my "other" folder and "requests" folder for this other persons message, and just noticed I now have at 11 messages from him the sperm donor.
Do I check them for safety concerns and then BH, or just not read them? How do you guys stay strong? I was thinking it might be time for a C&D, but if it is just a bunch of gibberish links and texts and videos and his blah blah blahs, is that really enough?
Maybe this isn't post worthy, feel free to delete if necessary Queens, but the video of either nothing *OR* something had me a little on edge, and to see now that there are seven more messages?
I don't know what the right thing to do is.