Ok I will start off by saying this might run long. DH and I have been together for 5 years. When we bought our house Mil and fill both said I was trying to use him for his money umm ok I'm pretty sure we used both of our saving. Well when we first moved in our front yard was a mess,I had plans on what to do with it and dh was in board. I bought this tree for the front yard it's a Japanese maple tree. Ever since I first bought it my ils have expressed there dislike for it what ever they live 6 hours away and I don't see them often so I thought my house my tree. They next year they visited towards winter his dad kept saying we had to trim this tree,j told him leave it alone it's fine. We'll I went to work came back and all the branches were gone every.single.one. To me it was a big fu duh said no he was being helpful. It didn't grow back right the next year it's now finally growing great and guess what inlaws are planning on visiting the first weekend of next month. They picked the weekend while I will be out of town. I just know they will Fricking mess with it. I know how stupid this sounds over a damn tree. My husband sees it as helpful. I know they do it to bother me. Just like my mil re arranging my kitchen and throwing out my spices because she "thinks" they are expired. Is it wrong of me to want to cancel my trip and pretty much babysit them? And is there a way I can get file to leave my tree alone?
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