I'll make this short since it doesn't require a lot of external action, mainly just internal action.
I'm 100% sure my mom is cheating on my dad. She hasn't told me anything, but through a lot of small, weird instances, I know it's happening. Mom and I have always been very close, and we navigated new boundaries together whenever I married my DH, and she is an A+ parent of an adult. My dad is a difficult person to get along with. He's always been kind of a bully. Never physically abusive, but loves to pick on me to see how long it takes for me to get mad. It's been this way since I was a kid.
I know it's none of my business, and I am not going to say anything to either of them about it. I think I'll just let it play out and not get involved at all. My question is: is there anything I can do for myself about this? I've never been through this and it breaks my heart that my parents' marriage is in so much trouble, knowing that there isn't anything I can do about it. Has anyone else been through this?
I'm 100% sure my mom is cheating on my dad. She hasn't told me anything, but through a lot of small, weird instances, I know it's happening. Mom and I have always been very close, and we navigated new boundaries together whenever I married my DH, and she is an A+ parent of an adult. My dad is a difficult person to get along with. He's always been kind of a bully. Never physically abusive, but loves to pick on me to see how long it takes for me to get mad. It's been this way since I was a kid.
I know it's none of my business, and I am not going to say anything to either of them about it. I think I'll just let it play out and not get involved at all. My question is: is there anything I can do for myself about this? I've never been through this and it breaks my heart that my parents' marriage is in so much trouble, knowing that there isn't anything I can do about it. Has anyone else been through this?
