Long story short. My parents are drunks and have been for the past 6 yeas at least. I'm 22 and have a brother(10) and sister(13). My parents have absolutely made our lives a living hell. They have been miserable and have finally seperated but have drug everyone through the mud with them.
It's been a non stop battle of "he said she said" with them and everyone has paid for their mistakes (mentally and financially). I've coughed out more than $14,000 to help out there failing business (my fault I know). I've helped with monthly electric/water/food bills and haven't been paid back a dime and will not be...my husband and I have accepted it at this point.
However, I'm 3 weeks from having another baby and my younger sister has been staying with me for the past two weeks. I have provided her with everything (food, new clothing, etc). She has a room set up here and all that good stuff. My mom is staying with her parents until she is able to get better and my dad is staying where him & my mom lived together(my sisters home state). He still refuses to admit he has a drinking problem & my mom still refuses to give it up completely.
Irecieved a text tonight from him(my dad) telling me DCF will be at my door tomorrow afternoon to get her and numerous other threats. I literally have nothing to hide from them and am not worried about the situation, especially with all of the dirt I have on him and my mom. I'm curious though, is there anything they can really do about her staying with me? My parents aren't and have not filed for divorce(they can't due to certain reasons I don't want to post). Neither parent has preferred custody and it's my understanding that there's nothing he can do?
Other than that, is it safe for me to completely cut him (my dad) off for right now or is that not the smartest thing to do since I have his daughter "living" with me? I'd rather have a peaceful 3 weeks of pregnancy left than have to deal with him or any unwanted visitors but I have a feeling he's going to make this as stressful as possible on me.
With all him and my mom have put our family through, he still sends me countless texts priding himself of how great of a parent he's been and how ashamed I should be. What a crock of shit.
Sorry for the questions thrown in, I know it's not a legal forum. I'm just so sick of all this shit already it's such a confusing situation and I'm wanting to cut them off for good but I don't know if that's really the thing to do right now because of my brother and sister? I do NOT take someone threatening my kids and I with DCF lightly though and am not happy about this at all.
It's been a non stop battle of "he said she said" with them and everyone has paid for their mistakes (mentally and financially). I've coughed out more than $14,000 to help out there failing business (my fault I know). I've helped with monthly electric/water/food bills and haven't been paid back a dime and will not be...my husband and I have accepted it at this point.
However, I'm 3 weeks from having another baby and my younger sister has been staying with me for the past two weeks. I have provided her with everything (food, new clothing, etc). She has a room set up here and all that good stuff. My mom is staying with her parents until she is able to get better and my dad is staying where him & my mom lived together(my sisters home state). He still refuses to admit he has a drinking problem & my mom still refuses to give it up completely.
Irecieved a text tonight from him(my dad) telling me DCF will be at my door tomorrow afternoon to get her and numerous other threats. I literally have nothing to hide from them and am not worried about the situation, especially with all of the dirt I have on him and my mom. I'm curious though, is there anything they can really do about her staying with me? My parents aren't and have not filed for divorce(they can't due to certain reasons I don't want to post). Neither parent has preferred custody and it's my understanding that there's nothing he can do?
Other than that, is it safe for me to completely cut him (my dad) off for right now or is that not the smartest thing to do since I have his daughter "living" with me? I'd rather have a peaceful 3 weeks of pregnancy left than have to deal with him or any unwanted visitors but I have a feeling he's going to make this as stressful as possible on me.
With all him and my mom have put our family through, he still sends me countless texts priding himself of how great of a parent he's been and how ashamed I should be. What a crock of shit.
Sorry for the questions thrown in, I know it's not a legal forum. I'm just so sick of all this shit already it's such a confusing situation and I'm wanting to cut them off for good but I don't know if that's really the thing to do right now because of my brother and sister? I do NOT take someone threatening my kids and I with DCF lightly though and am not happy about this at all.
