DH told MIL about my therapy
I've been lurking a few weeks and I've read the sticky. As I've read the stories on DWIL, I have given a lot of thought to my own life and upbringing. I can give you BG on that if needed, but last week...
View ArticleDidn't tell MIL we moved, getting mail - UD 7, 17, 18 text pg 26, email 38, ? 52
BG: http://community.babycenter.com/post/a59666998/duh_getting_a_unicorn_horn_help_me_articulate_update_pg_3?cpg=1TL;DR BG: MIL is a narc asshole who uses emotional blackmail. SIL is the GC. Husband is...
View Article*Trigger sexual abuse* Cousin named his son after me.
Been lurking for a long time. Never posted or commented. I am sorry for any rambles and things that don't make sense. I am literally shaking with rage right now. . . BG: My mother is in the military....
View ArticleProblems at kids' school
This isn't really a DWIL problem but it requires that I have a strong spine and I need a little help. A little BG: TRIGGER I was abused sexually, physically, emotionally as a child. END TRIGGER...
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Helping someone with depression?
I had to bust out the computer for this post since it will be quite lengthy. I understand that depression is an illness, and someone who is suffering from depression needs to seek out help. But what do...
View ArticleMIL visiting issue (long)
I have never had any issues with my MIL and genuinely like her but since LO was born things have gone down hill. Little BG I'm a ftm and MIL is divorced and an empty nester. First issue was she wanted...
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I think I made a huge mistake
Update:Pg.6 I do have BG on here except I'm mobile and don't know how to link. Long story short: I'm trying my hardest to shine my spine and FOO does not like it. FOO got put in a TO for debil...
View ArticleLong Time Listener, First Time Caller
Ladies. Been up here in Canada lurking you for months, on the recommendation of a fellow BabyCenterCanada member to assist with transitioning my BatShitCrazy MIL from being an omnipresent cloud of...
View ArticleI really need help..I don't know what to do anymore..texts included from sil
I have been reading dwil nation for a while now. I went anon. I really would appreciate some suggestions and outside perspectives on how to improve my situation. Without going into too many details..I...
View ArticleDifficult Mother In Law 1,4,5,7,9,13
I am a newly married wife who got pregnant almost immediately and now I need advice with my mother in law. My mother in law is not the easiest person to deal with, her daughter doesn't get along with...
View ArticleCO ILs and "finding out" ud pg 11, SIL has bad intel...
Amongst ourselves, DH and I call it an indefinite time out, but in effect it is a CO from MIL. She's a terrible person, plays favorites, stomps boundaries like godzilla and king kong had a REALLY ugly...
View ArticleLlama noms from Mexico
I'm on vacation in Mexico right now and the couple in the room beside me is having a fight on their balcony. Apparently the guy's mom is babysitting and all of his siblings are over there visiting the...
View ArticleTerminally ill MIL & delivery room *Update pg 37*
I originally had this on the March 2016 bb and was advised to share it here. Okay. So let me just start by saying my MIL don't have a bad relationship. She has done a lot for my husband and I this past...
View ArticleHow Do I Tell FIL We've Covered It?
I have previously posted about my delightful IL's and their health issues, and FIL's joy at giving my 5 year old all the gory details about their health maladies whilst DH and I are not around. I have...
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Done with MY PARENTS. Dcf, etc.
Long story short. My parents are drunks and have been for the past 6 yeas at least. I'm 22 and have a brother(10) and sister(13). My parents have absolutely made our lives a living hell. They have been...
View ArticleWhat to do now? Long.
DH & I need advice. Background been married 12 years, together 17. Started to set some boundaries after a bad Christmas visit with IL when we had 3 small children but have mostly been doormats...
View ArticleHow do I respond?
Just got this text from PIL: Are you and the kids at home today? FIL and I were wondering about stopping in sometime today to see you. I don't want to see them. I'm full of anxiety because of a...
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MIL hoping for a girl
My MIL had 4 boys, and no girls. She kept trying to have more children to get her girl, but it never happened. Fast forward 20 years, as soon as my MIL found out I was pregnant, she started telling my...
View ArticleLo with MIL? Advice plz...Updates: pages 12, 14,15,17...i may have missed some!
So my husband is in the Marines and is leaving for 2 months for training. During that time he's sending me home, our baby girl hasn't met any family members as yet so I'm really excited for her to meet...
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I think I made a huge mistake Update pgs. 6,11
Update:Pg.6, 11 I do have BG on here except I'm mobile and don't know how to link. Long story short: I'm trying my hardest to shine my spine and FOO does not like it. FOO got put in a TO for debil...
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