I am not on speaking terms with my inlaws, and there have been serious issues since early in my pregnancy with them. DH and I separated for 8 months earlier this year, and he moved home with them and my stepson for that period. We've opted to give things between us another shot, and he moved home at the beginning of June. His parents, who have been a major issue for our entire marriage ( a little over 3 years), have ruined every special event / holiday since our DD was born. Our DD just turned 2 last week, and her birthday party is tomorrow. My DH has been begging them to come, but they refuse to, because they hate me. Today, DH said he was going to bring both kids to the park, but actually decided to bring them to his parents house so that his parents, siblings, godmother, & grandmother could have their own birthday party for her, and tried to hide it from me and not allow me to be there. I am disgusted with my husband that he's allowing his mom to pull this crap, and so incredibly hurt. He needs to stand up for our family, and me, but he knows if he does that they'll just write him off. What would you guys do in this situation? Would you have allowed your child to stay at the "party"??
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