Today my 3 yr old told me that her Nana and Titi (my mom and sister) have been telling her Tony (my husband her father) isnt her father. She just said it and at first i was confused. But when i asked her why she was calling her daddy tony, she because titi and nana said hes not my daddy hes tony. They dont like my husband. And never have. Despite that he has always felt she still needs to be around my side of the family. However doesnt like that they dont follow our rules. As her mom and dad she is being raised as a muslim (my family is christian nd firmly believe my husband has brainwashed me into believing in islam) any who ive asked then time and time again not to do that because she doesnt need the confusion nor to think that her father isnt her father. Now that i know she is old enough and understands what they're telling her, is it wrong for me ti say no more time will nana and titi unsupervised????? They said if i want that they'll just see her on holidays and her birthday ( but we dont celebrate either..) because theyre grown ups and dont need to be supervised. Am i wrong? My husband also says im wrong. That as long as we continue to correct her she will be fine. But i think the opposite. I don't want her confused nor do i want to keep having to correct her about something so minor .
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