DW & I cut off SIL.. very many reasons. bil is in county jail waiting on his court case for 3 felonys. DW's ex bf is blocked on fb and all social media (& life) bc she cheated on me with him a little over 2 years ago.
My mother in law died last Tuesday. It was a freak accident at work. No one was expecting it, at all. Everyone is falling apart. SIL is attempting to be nice to me, but also being a bitch at the same time.. like who even has the energy to be that mean right now? BIL got out on over 24 hours of furlough for the showing and funeral.. during the showing he made a drug deal out back, left 2 hours early to hang with his friends, and between the showings we went to a restraunt and he got into with the manager and almost got the cops called on himself. when my mother in law was alive he stepped all over her, pushed her and called her names... during the funeral he bitched because they mentioned my name with the siblings (since Dw and i are married- and i lived with MIL & FIL- and i went with to pick out all funeral arrangements, etc) All of this makes me 100 kinds of mad.
Ex bf showed back up in my life bc him and my mother in law were kind of close and he is seriously hurting my marriage. he told dw that i was looking at his junk (cause thats really what im concerned about?!) and then made two jokes about screwing her.. in front of me.
so heres my complaint- what the hell is wrong with people?!?! Does literally no one have common sense or respect?! is this normal? I've never lost anyone before but i just dont understand.
a couple people showed up to the funeral VERY under dressed (over sized ICP tee shirt?!) and my mother in laws mom made a comment about "oh so you have to die to get nice boobs" like no, thats where they did the autopsy and had to wrap her back up. WHAT IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE?