my pregnancy turned MIL crazy UD 11, 20, 25, 35, 40, 46, 55, 67, 78, 82, 88,...
Once upon a time, my MIL was a really nice, caring woman who never boundry stomped, always gave us our space and respected our wishes. Then i got pregnant And shit hit the fan. She got super clingy and...
View ArticleMIL revealed herself
First, I want to start off explaining that both my partner and I are pregnant, and we are due together in August. So, the pregnancies have been going pretty well, and up until the baby shower in June...
View ArticleI was directed to this group for help, OH's father is a child molester
I originally posted my problem on my other group but was directed here because I was told you ladies have seen my situation before. My OHs father moved in about a year ago and I've always had a creepy...
View ArticleUgh, already..."Informed" of Christmas expectations!!
My mother recently informed me that her, her DH (not bio dad and nowhere near my "step dad") and his four children will be coming to stay with us for 2 weeks during Christmas like they did last year. I...
View ArticleToy Store Tantrum (Lama Noms for those that need a chuckle today)
Got something for your Lamas to nom on today. I got lawn tantrumed in a baby store, by someone who only knows me from when I worked in said store right before I had Lo. Bg: For a year and a half...
View ArticlefMIL "putting her foot down" UD 4, 5, 14, 18, 25, 28
Hello all. For a while now I've dealt with my fMIL and thought some of the things she did weren't normal. But for the most part I put up with it because he lived with her. A few examples of the...
View ArticlefMIL "putting her foot down" UD 4, 5, 14, 18, 25, 28, 33
Hello all. For a while now I've dealt with my fMIL and thought some of the things she did weren't normal. But for the most part I put up with it because he lived with her. A few examples of the...
View ArticleWhy do grandparent problems exist?
After finding this board, I know I'm not alone. There are so many GP BH! Why are there so many ass holes out there? What is wrong with people? You have a grandchild and then lose your mind? Who are...
View ArticleMy selfish in-law rant update page 3, 4, 9, 10, 15, 19, 24,25
DW & I cut off SIL.. very many reasons. bil is in county jail waiting on his court case for 3 felonys. DW's ex bf is blocked on fb and all social media (& life) bc she cheated on me with him a...
View ArticleAbsent parents of daughter's abusive mother now want visitation?
This was posted on Parenting Advice but then found this board and thought it might be a better fit. My three-year-old daughter spent her first two years in foster care after being abused by her mother,...
View ArticleMIL has just started a war- Update page 28
Updates: 7, 9, 10, email 11, 15, 20, 21, 22, 23, 27, 28 First time poster, long time stalker of the board. A little back story: MIL left DH and his brother to move across the country from SC to CA...
View ArticleVent: MIL babysitting
MIL had DD Unsupervised for the first time last night, just for 3 hours. When we returned she greeted me with " well, this baby is ruined! You have spoiled her! She wouldn't let me put her down" What...
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New rules for MIL visits
I am over the current way MIL visits. She comes and sits on the couch and talks to DH and somewhat to the kids but they get bored and end up playing video games. She will usually play a board game with...
View ArticleDoes it go away?new q pg1
Does the feeling the other shoe is going to drop ever go away? We haven't seen or heard from fil or smil since June 2014. Yay! Radio silence no attempt to contact us or ds. Sil on the other hand, was...
View ArticleHelp with RSVP to ILs
So first off, yes I know an invitation is not a summons! But I do need some help in how to reply to an invite. Here’s the gist, been married 7 years. Every year, the females in my DH’s extended family...
View ArticleBoiling Point
I have never posted here but it has helped me in the last few weeks to put into action some things I am already learning in counseling. I have read the sticky and aware this is not a "support" group....
View ArticleNot your run of the MIL family (probably long and trigger)
MIL is a character. I have known her for 8 years and have always made efforts to be kind and treat her like family, she just makes it so hard. SO is from another culture and I don't mind (kids are...
View ArticleSo BEYOND done with my husbands family!!!!
I recommended from my Oct birth club to post here for some advice and help. Some background info, I am a young mom, 18 and married, with a beautiful wonderful 10 mo old son. My husband has a HUGE...
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FM debil postcard(!!!) from CO MIL - Update pg 8, 9
This is not her handwriting. There is no return address or I'd RTS. Some random crazy has all of our info now. She's said that she'll "continue to fight to see LO" but she's done nothing but send...
View ArticlePassive aggressive mil....ignore or confront?
My mil is very passive aggressive and I find her doing things all the time that annoy me. However it's hard to stick up for myself because she does it in a way where she appears like she's just doing...
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