Don't know how to CO my OBro, help! pg 3 5 6 7 8 12 13 14 17 new ? pg 20
I have been lurking here for a little while and would love some advice but am not  good at putting my thoughts into words so please bear with me.  I want to CO my OBro (3 yrs older) and his family but...
View ArticleSlightly OT-- CO Friend Apologizes after over 15 Years (Possible Triggers?) LONG
Good evening! I'm mostly a lurker here on DWIL but I've been reading for over a year to help shine my spine in regards to my FOO-- particulary a difficult brother I have on medium-contact and my bio...
View ArticleMIL and Disturbing Comments *Trigger*
I have a bg on here. not sure how to link to them. Sorry for the length...and the punctuation, the grammar, and anything else that doesn't make sense. I'm sleepy and fixing to go to bed and then have...
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MIL shared our loss with everyone from her work.
We lost a pregnancy one week ago today, he was 15 weeks when he passed and I had to deliver him and spend all day in the hospital. We hadn't announced our pregnancy to anyone but my mother yet and had...
View ArticleI'm probably my aunts daughter
This is sensitive. I'm posting anon, but have friends on here who know of my issue. If you recognize me, I ask you keep quiet. Two months ago I was cleaning out my Grandma's attic. She's a hoarder...
View ArticleIs It Normal To Feel This Way? UD: pg 3 MAJOR UD PG 5, Question pg 8
We invited my SO's patents to see our LO at the park yesterday and we didn't get a response so I told them that if they ever decided to actually show their grandchild affection and love, they had my...
View ArticleMIL stalked me on Facebook (long and need input)
On Facebook I have my MIL blocked. She has been blocked for over a year now. This is my second pregnancy and to share in the excitement, I made a post tagging friends, and revealed i'm pregnant. She...
View ArticleBrother is making it tough
My brother and I are 7 years apart. We have both moved from our home town to a different town and ended up getting married and settling down here with our spouses. We both have sons and they are 1 year...
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That Moment When DWIL Takes Over Your Everyday Life
DWIL has truly left a lasting impression on me. Even in casual conversations with friends I throw in DWIL gems like...
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how do I explain to DH?
On Friday we went to in-laws for dinner. As soon as we get there, SIL asked to hold him. I told her I needed to feed and burp first. As I was burping him, MIL tells LO (8 wks old) oh, your mommy is...
View ArticleHolidays, Vacationing, and Other Nuclear vs. Extended Family Events New Q pg 3
Hi, all! HUGE thank you to the help you have been to me so far in shining my spine and realizing my feelings were valid with our PIL issues! On the first of every month, DH and I have a "family...
View Articlecan't deal with SO's mother or his relationship with her anymore (very long...
this woman is unbearable, a grown 40 year old woman came to live with us because she was having "money troubles" 6 months ago but has no problem paying for her 24 year old other son who is older than...
View ArticleMIL has just started a war- Update page 36
Updates: 7, 9, 10, email 11, 15, 20, 21, 22, 23, 27, 28, 30, 32, 35, 36 First time poster, long time stalker of the board. A little back story: MIL left DH and his brother to move across the country...
View ArticlePreparing for the worst;hoping for the best "moat" pic pg2, pg 3, pg 6, bg 9,...
Help me not feel so crazy for coming up with rediculous scenarios of what pil may do this weekend and share how you've prepared for the worst case and hoped for the best outcome. Here's mine that got...
View ArticleNEW MIL, worst nightmare
I'm new to this group and need some helpful guidance before things with my MIL get out of hand. Some background: My boyfriend and I got pregnant unexpectedly and he comes from a very conservative...
View ArticleOf course she's back.
Here's my background: http://community.babycenter.com/post/a54140098/managed_to_miss_bsc_question_pg_2_ud_3 I've been off of DWIL since the end of this post because I was driving myself nuts worrying...
View ArticleStep mom treats her puppy like a human child?
My step mom just got a new puppy. She's 12 weeks old and extremely small. My step moms 30 year old sons JUST moved out in the last year so I think she's going through an empty nest phase. My son is 14...
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Thought I had MIL trained. UD 5 txt, BSC 8, 15, smUD 21& noms, 25? NonUD...
Long time lurker, occasional commenter, I've gone anon because family members. Well versed with the Sticky To set the scene, my now-turned duh and I live in a seasonal tourist trap. Summer is a very...
View Articlethe dogs
Long time lurker, first time poster. My DH and I have 3 kids, the youngest of whom was born in 2012. It was around then that one of my friends gently steered me towards DWIL, after I had a near-...
View ArticleMIL not respectful of our privacy, and doesn't help when needed
Hi everyone, i'm a 2009 member, who started out on babycenter using the Pregnant Teens Board. I was 16 at the time and had my daughter in 2009. I've never been on DWIL before, but now I need help with...
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